Women indignantly share with each other stories about how men throw socks around the house, sweep away all the food in the refrigerator, fall asleep in front of the TV, etc. But women also have habits that repel men.
And if we require men to eradicate unpleasant habits for us, then we must make the same demands to ourselves! What habits should you get rid of so as not to annoy your loved one?
Commanding habits
Nothing annoys a man like a woman trying to take his place. The commanding notes in his voice, the habit of challenging and criticizing his actions and decisions can not only infuriate any man, but also generally lead to a break in relations.
Advice. It is important to learn to be a real woman, the keeper of the peace and quiet of the hearth, ready to play "second violin" in a family tandem. Remember the saying that "the man is the head and the woman is the neck"? Do not prevent the "head" from performing representative functions. Women's wisdom (read: cunning) is the main weapon of a real woman.
Limit his freedom
If you do not allow him to watch football ("There are more important things to do!"), Hinder communication with friends ("Let's go to mom!") Or prevent your conversations from immersing yourself in the plot of your favorite game, the husband will be indignant. He will take it as a habit to limit his freedom.
Advice. To avoid becoming an oppressor in your husband's eyes, try to plan your affairs so that he does not feel hurt. For example, postpone your request for a light bulb replacement until he is not minding his own business (reading, watching football, texting with a friend, etc., etc.).
Look 100% on holidays only
When communicating with his bride before the wedding, a young man always sees a well-groomed and attractive person. And he is noticeably disappointed after the wedding, discovering that his beloved has a "presentation" only by the time he leaves the house. And since most of the time the husband sees his wife at home, her appearance in a stretched T-shirt, without makeup and with a "crow's nest" on his head both annoys and repels him.
Advice. Dressing up for the office is good, but it's important to get into the habit of dressing up at home for your husband. When a well-groomed and attractive wife is waiting for him at home, he will have less reason to look towards pretty employees at work and just unfamiliar women.
Whine and complain
Even the most spectacular appearance gradually loses its attractiveness when its owner begins to constantly whine, complain about life and shed tears for any reason. At first, a man is lost, then he gets used to it and instead of sympathy begins to experience irritation. In this situation, he would rather prefer a charming, optimistic ugly woman who always sheds tears and is always displeased with beauty.
Advice. Tears to get things done are a favorite technique of some women. But the trick is that over time, a man stops responding to him. We advise you to choose some other method of influencing your husband.
