After the Meldenson march has sounded and the honeymoon has flown by, the couple goes to a new level of development of relations. But it happens that when faced with difficulties, a man and a woman find themselves in a dead end. Quite often, a break occurs altogether. If the husband leaves, the woman desperately tries to find out the reason for his behavior.
A man by nature strives to become the head of the family. But not all wives provide this opportunity to their husbands.
What a wife shouldn't do
Unfortunately, in recent years, wives are increasingly taking on more and more responsibilities in financial terms and in everyday life, and on their own initiative. Then these women complain that everything rests on their shoulders. Husbands are often reproached for this.
Dear ladies should be active only in their field of activity. The woman is responsible for the emotional mood in the family, but too much initiative can lead to a disastrous effect. A rare man will like it when they decide for him - where to go to work, what hobby to choose, with whom of the acquaintances to communicate?
Powerful women are at risk
Most husbands do not tolerate pressure. It is the unwillingness to be a puppet in the hands of a woman or henpecked that causes confrontation between the sexes in the family. If a woman does not show flexibility and does not change tactics, she will face a violent coup on the part of a man.
We can say with certainty that husbands leave unbalanced, psychopathic personalities. It is in the first years of married life that a man gets turned on by temperamental showdowns, from the whistle of dishes flying over his head, from unfounded accusations against innocent communication with a pretty neighbor.
If a wife is very hot-tempered, constantly throws tantrums, year after year it is more and more difficult for a man to get along with such a person. After all, constantly making excuses and keeping the defense is a very tedious task! And now the beloved husband begins to wonder - did he make a mistake by choosing such a woman as a life partner?
Decreased sexual interest
Husbands break off relationships when a woman stops taking care of herself. This concerns the appearance, for example: constant dull home clothes, a boring ponytail on the head. The absurd behavior of his wife, her manner of expressing herself in everyday life and in an intimate setting, begins to irritate. Of course, not a single normal man will run to divorce right away because of this.
But the first bell will ring when the wife realizes that she is not interested in her husband as a woman. And disharmony and discord in emotional and sexual life is a reason for a man to turn his attention to other women in his field of vision.
Oddly enough, strong representatives of the sex also leave those women whose earnings are much more than their own. Self-loving strong men begin to feel unnecessary and inferior next to such a wife. Remember the movie "Moscow Doesn't Believe in Tears"?
Gosha, aka Goga, at first could not come to terms with the position of his woman. I just averted and went into a binge. But the point, of course, is not only that the wife brings more money to the house than the husband. Her worldview, character is changing, a manner of looking down on her husband appears.
Leave the unloved
What wives do husbands leave from? With a slight irony, you can give an answer: from the rich, unsympathetic, unlucky, from bitchy, gray mice, bright beauties and quiet. From different. But more often husbands leave their unloved wives!
When love disappears, all female dignity disappears. In this case, a man himself cannot explain what annoys him so much in family life. After all, at first glance, everything is not so bad.
A woman should compete with a man in only one thing: to maintain the family fire of love. Slowly flaring up, cozy, it makes all the unsightly roughness of a woman's nature fade and forgive women's emotional outbursts. It is unlikely that a woman in such an environment will think about the departure of her husband from her.
