Sometimes ladies do not even know about the real reasons for the breakup. But apart from serious reasons, there are also "pitfalls", namely women's habits, which repel men. It so happens that even a trifle can serve as a catalyst for rupture.
Appearance
There is a category of women who "suggest a marafet" only before some important event. Seeing at the beginning of a love relationship with his chosen one in full dress, a man later may be very surprised that in everyday life and at home she does not make efforts to look beautiful and sexy. This is especially true for couples who have been living together for several years and the woman does not consider it necessary to be attractive to her husband, because the job is done - the wedding is over, why bother?
A particularly bad case is women who are sluts. Here the situation is much sadder, the lack of a culture of personal hygiene annoys and repels most men, few will be delighted with the "mess".
But there is also a downside to the medal - ladies who attach great importance to their appearance. They can spend hours spinning in front of a mirror, spending a lot of time in beauty salons and spending a lot of money on things and cosmetics. Women fixated on their appearance annoy men no less than sluts. Therefore, the most important thing in self-care is a reasonable "golden mean".
Vulgarity and addiction
Sexy women always attract the looks of the stronger sex, but it is important not to cross the line and not slide into vulgarity.
Even the most undemanding man can be repulsed by a cheap and defiant appearance, loudness, rudeness, foul language and flirting with other men.
Most men have a negative attitude to female addictions: alcohol abuse, smoking and addiction to drugs.
No serious man would want to see such a woman as the wife and mother of his future children.
you should
At the “top of the pedestal” among women’s habits that repel men is the philosophy “You must…”.
There is a category of women who clearly know what a real man should do and remind their partner about it at every opportunity.
According to their philosophy, the list of male duties is quite extensive. Such a "policy" has a very detrimental effect on the relationship between a man and a woman. A strong alliance based on continuous obligations and unilateral claims can hardly be built.
Excessive control
Another female habit that repels men is excessive control and attempts to restrict freedom.
Some women, entering into relationships, begin to consider the lover as their property. They try to control and manipulate the man.
Prohibitions, restrictions, criticism and constant control will not please anyone, so such a relationship is doomed to failure.
If you don't want to lose your man, stop calling him every half hour, prohibiting meetings with friends and family, and making decisions for him.
This also includes constant criticism and distribution of advice "how to do better …". A man is an adult and is able to take care of himself. And advice is good when asked.
Excessive emotionality
Excessive expression of emotions can cause affection in men only at the initial stage of a relationship. After a time of "ahi" and "ooh", rolling eyes, hysterics in an "empty place", enthusiasm "about and without", a sharp change in moods frighten and repel men.
Not everyone likes "Italian passions", endless grievances and clarification of relationships in public.
Men prefer to build a family with balanced and emotionally healthy ladies.
Love of convenience
Self-interest repels most men. If, at the initial stage of the relationship, a lady shows a clear interest in the financial state of the prospective partner, this is a reason to think about whether it is worth continuing the acquaintance.
According to the rules of good manners, it is not customary to talk about money, especially on first dates, and it is also ugly to ask or demand expensive gifts. A real man, without reminders, take care of his beloved so that she does not need anything.
Stupidity and limitation
Unwillingness to develop is another habit that can alienate a good promising man.
"Adorable, what a fool" - this term refers to not very smart and limited persons who are poorly educated and cannot maintain an interesting conversation.
Some women believe that in order to achieve success in life, they care enough about their appearance, successfully get married and have a child. Their interests are often limited to shopping and gossip.
Ladies with a narrow outlook, who do not want to learn and develop, most often cause indulgence in men, and even a slight contempt.
The outer beauty will fade over time, but the “inner spiritual fulfillment” will remain with you forever. Therefore, if you want to interest a man, do not be lazy, constantly work on yourself, learn new things and read a lot.
Vampire women
Pessimism and a gloomy outlook on life are qualities that can scare off many men. Whining and constant complaints about life are habits that you need to get rid of as soon as possible. A constantly grumbling woman with a "sour" displeased face brings only negativity around herself. It is difficult to communicate with such people, they are toxic and "steal" other people's energy.
Men are much more like cheerful positive ladies with a sense of humor, who easily go through life and do not get depressed from small life failures.
Non-punctuality
The classic of the genre is female non-punctuality. Men who are constantly waiting for their women have already become just "the talk of the town."
But here the ladies are lucky, they are more often forgiven for being late than for the stronger sex.
But do not abuse men's patience, regular non-punctuality is annoying and completely unacceptable at work and business meetings.
If the delay cannot be avoided, it is imperative to call and warn about the delay.
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