A woman, entering into marriage, believes and hopes that for her husband she will be the best wife, beloved and desired. However, the sad statistics of divorces convincingly testifies that this is not always the case. How should a wife behave so that her husband does not even for a second doubt that she is the best, and never regretted his decision to associate life with her?
Instructions
Step 1
Remember that even calm, peaceful men do not tolerate when women try to command them. Therefore, from the very beginning, take it as a strict rule: do not resort to the command tone, lectures, and even more so to such female "weapons" as reproaches and scandals. Even if you are absolutely sure that you are right, try to convince your spouse with arguments, politely and calmly. Better yet, make him think that he himself wants to do exactly what you suggest.
Step 2
Respect your husband's privacy. He is not obliged to devote every free minute only to you. The husband has the right to be alone or to meet friends, or to visit his relatives. If his hobbies, hobbies, seem strange, incomprehensible to you, try to come to terms with it. Of course, everything is fine in moderation, and if your husband's hobbies cause significant damage to the family budget, you have every right to express your displeasure. But try to refrain from accusatory prosecutorial tone.
Step 3
Never criticize his parents in front of your husband, especially your mother, even if you have good reasons for this. Yes, the eternal problem "daughter-in-law - mother-in-law" can cause you a lot of inconvenience. But after all, your spouse is already very difficult psychologically due to the fact that the women closest to him are quarreling. Don't make this sad situation worse.
Step 4
You will hardly be able to completely avoid jealousy, but try to keep it from excessive forms. Do not ask your husband to report almost by the minute: where he was, what he did, with whom he met. Remember that jealousy is somewhat akin to spicy spices: in small quantities, they improve and enrich the taste of the dish, but if they are shifted, the dish will be inedible. Don't let jealousy jeopardize your marriage.
Step 5
Do not skimp on kind words, praise, especially if the husband works a lot to support the family, tries to help you with the housework or taking care of the children. Too much praise, of course, should not be, but do not forget the saying "A kind word and the cat is pleased."
Step 6
Always take care of yourself to be attractive, well-groomed. It is not easy, especially when there are small children in the family, but it is absolutely necessary.
