Communication plays a critical role in the development and upbringing of a child. A competent dialogue with your child will help you better understand each other, avoid many problems, and possibly become good friends.
Instructions
Step 1
Pay attention to your intonation, especially when dealing with babies. The crumbs do not yet understand the meaning of many phrases, but they react very accurately to the intonation with which you pronounce them. Talk to your child in a calm and friendly manner, looking into their eyes. It is desirable that your views are on the same level.
Step 2
Remember that there are forbidden words that cannot be pronounced even mechanically. "You are lazy and dirty!", "You have no brains if you cannot solve such an easy task!", "Leave me alone, how tired you are!" - such words can develop a number of complexes in a baby. They are deposited in the subconscious of the child and shape his future personality traits. There is no need to condemn and insult the child - scold his bad deeds.
Step 3
Stop comparing your child to other children. "Here Seryozha finished the quarter with a good grade, and you have a C in mathematics!", "What a beautiful Lenochka, sorry about you you can't say that!". After such phrases, the child may have unhealthy rivalry, he begins to be jealous and doubt that his parents love him, regardless of success and achievements.
Step 4
Motivate your child, awaken in him the desire for new victories and achievements. "What a beautiful drawing, but you have talent!" - such phrases inspire the child and help him to believe in himself.
Step 5
Parents are living people with their own problems and emotions, and outbursts of irritation and anger are often taken out on children. Try to extinguish your anger in time, otherwise you will cause psychological or even physical harm to the child. Feel free to admit your mistakes and ask your child's forgiveness for an undeserved offense.
Step 6
Trust your children, do not dismiss them, listen to them, take an interest in their lives, plans and dreams. Even 20 minutes of sincere companionship a day will help you establish contact with your child, maintain and strengthen the parent-child bond.
