Child psychologists believe that parents need to constantly eradicate 12 certain obstacles from their communication with their child. Among them are such familiar reactions as commanding tone, commands, warning, threat, moralizing, mentoring tone and others. Mom and Dad need to comprehend the nature of correct communication with a child, despite the fact that raising their child is really a difficult process.
Instructions
Step 1
The opinion of experts about the correctly chosen principle of communication with a child is as follows - do not interfere with his occupation, only if he does not ask you personally for help with words or gestures. With your parental loyalty at such a moment, you kind of tell him that he will succeed in everything he has planned, and the game will take place.
Step 2
If a child asks for help, help him, but exactly what he really cannot do without your participation. Gradually hand over the "reins", even in those moments that were beyond the power of the child, into his hands.
Step 3
Listen to your child for emotional problems, but do not take them over to yourself. Show dissatisfaction with your baby if his actions make you feel negatively. Do not demand from your child the impossible, too difficult to do for him at the moment.
Step 4
Apply sanctions to the child, not punishment! There should be certain rules and prohibitions for your baby, but there should not be too many of them. Your requirements should be flexible. Know how to negotiate with your child, come to the golden mean, where "the wolves are fed and the sheep are safe."
Step 5
Teach your child more - punish less. Behaves badly? It means that you just haven't taught him how to behave correctly. Even the most difficult child should be taught. When punishing, be sure to explain in detail why you did it, otherwise you will receive anger or fear in response.
Step 6
Do not let the education and upbringing of the child take its course. Talk to him constantly, explain life rules, tell him stories, read fairy tales, poems. When you pick him up from kindergarten, ask your grandparents in detail what interesting things happened to him today. Develop in the child the need to tell parents everything that is sore, to trust them.
