Everyone knows that it is impossible to make a person fall in love - but many people do not know what the art of love and harmonious relationships is, and dream of learning this art. Therefore, you can learn to love a person by investing a certain amount of time, effort, and your own inner resources in a relationship. You can create the love of your dreams yourself, if you do not wait for it, doing nothing, but start acting and making your desires come true.
Instructions
Step 1
In order to learn to love, you need to be patient, persistent and ready to constantly move forward. If you want to create truly harmonious relationships, learn to appreciate the person around you - don't treat them like a function, and don't exploit them.
Step 2
Try to become necessary for your partner - be attentive to his wishes, thoughts and feelings, and in return the partner will be attentive to your experiences. Take an interest in the inner world of your partner - this will reduce misunderstandings and increase the degree of your mutual trust.
Step 3
Be sincere and open - only when you open up to another person, you can see mutual openness and some feelings on his part.
Step 4
Learn to disinterestedly give your loved one your feelings, and accept in return what he gives you. If you remember this constantly, the relationship will constantly revive, and you will notice that love does not fade, and the negative emotions between you become less and less.
Step 5
Do not think only about yourself - take care not only of your own interests, but also of the interests of your partner. Help him, take an interest in his affairs and problems, show concern. Share your thoughts and ideas with the person, and he will meet you halfway, showing more and more trust.
Step 6
Learn to reasonably approach the solution of the problems that arise between you - in case of quarrels and conflicts, take the first step towards reconciliation, try to understand the causes of disagreements and eliminate them in a joint discussion.
Step 7
Find those traits that unite, rather than divide you - you will notice that there are many more of these traits, and that you are really drawn to each other. This approach creates mutual understanding in relationships.
Step 8
Remember that the person around you always remains a mystery - discover new traits of his character, try to look at your partner in a new way, be surprised and rejoice at the changes that are taking place in him, and therefore in yourself.
Step 9
Love should evoke a feeling of inspiration in you, and this is possible only when you constantly feel something new and unusual, and only when you mutually support each other's individuality.
