To please a girl, you need to be special and stand out from others. Many guys believe that muscles will undoubtedly become the guarantor of their popularity, and they go headlong in pursuit of a beautiful body.
Fearless Defender
When a girl meets a guy for the first time, it is logical that from the first minutes she does not try to see his inner world, but pays attention to his appearance. And if you follow the theory about the importance of the effect of the first impression, then we can conclude that a beautiful appearance will play into your hands in the future. A man is, first of all, a protector. This understanding is inherent in girls in the subconscious, even if they deliberately deny it. And the fact is that the embossed body with pumped up biceps and cubes on the stomach corresponds to the image of a strong and fearless defender.
Momentary weakness
Do girls like pumped-up guys? If you directly answer this question, then the unconditional answer will be the word "yes". This is similar to how men are attracted to girls with a beautiful figure. Striving for beauty is what lies at the heart of this attraction.
However, usually superficial attraction is limited to the first "minutes of weakness": the further time goes, the harder it is to hold attention. Think about what you really want? So that crowds of fans run after you, not representing anything serious, or really interested in girls? As a rule, standing girls are skeptical of pumped-up guys. They have several reasons for this.
Stereotypes
Social dogmas lie in dense layers on the consciousness of any person. Now think about how the inner world and mind of a pumped-up guy is represented, for example, on television? Suffice it to recall the youth TV series "Univer" and one of its main characters - Kuzyu. Of course, the series cannot be called cult, and the question of whether someone is watching television now deserves a separate article. But, nevertheless, indirectly or directly, the media have an impact, and the image of a pumped-up guy is unwittingly associated with a "dummy".
You cannot blame the girl for the fact that her thoughts succumb to this stereotype. Indeed, in life, there are often guys with whom there is nothing to talk about, except about their own muscles. Therefore, the question of the interest of girls in pumped-up guys is of a dual nature. On the one hand, physical dignity guarantees safety, and on the other, a pumped-up body guarantees frailty of the mind.
Therefore, in order to please girls, having big muscles is not enough, although this is a great advantage when dating. To maintain interest and attention in yourself, develop both physically and spiritually.
