It happens that an outwardly unattractive man is popular with ladies, and no one wants to date a handsome man. This is because girls look not so much at beauty as at the inner world of their beau.
Attractive qualities of men
Probably, many can imagine a standard set of good masculine qualities. A young man should be smart, charming, handsome and sociable. Undoubtedly, the attitude and outlook on life of girls change with age, and if at a younger age many are attracted to "bad" guys, then over time this passes and there is a craving for calm, respectable men who will be excellent family men and good dads.
Also, for young people, the appearance of a young man is almost always in the first place. It doesn't matter that a guy may turn out to be a rare egoist - at this age, a pretty face and a good figure are a significant factor, not everyone will agree to be next to a boy who is very unattractive in appearance.
When a girl gets a little older, qualities such as ambition and sexuality begin to prevail in the choice of a young man. The latter is necessary to satisfy the formed female sexual needs. Ambitiousness and success, in turn, are factors "for the future" that will be required for career advancement, good earnings and, as a result, support for the family.
Becoming mature, a woman begins to look for qualities in men such as intelligence, reliability, good taste and manners. A well-developed style of behavior and excellent manners characterize a successful and successful man, which is important for a happy and comfortable family life. The need for spiritual closeness and support begins to dominate, which only a gentle and sincere man can give.
No less significant qualities are kindness, absence of bad habits, responsiveness. Subconsciously, the girl chooses the father for the unborn child, so love for children, or at least a good attitude towards them, will also not be superfluous.
What can ruin a relationship?
Of course, at any age, normal relationships will be hindered by such qualities as unhealthy selfishness, aggression, pathological jealousy and narcissism. It is unlikely that someone will be able to meet for a long time with an aggressive tyrant, incapable of making independent decisions and an abnormal tendency to narcissism.
However, in any case, the decision always remains with the girl, she herself will have to decide and choose - a charming and charming narcissistic egoist or a reliable male shoulder that you can rely on for the rest of your days.
