Some women think that almost all men are prone to cheating. In fact, this is not the case. And there are methods to predict in advance how much this or that guy is inclined to "hikes to the left."
Instructions
Step 1
Study his family scenarios. If the father or mother of your friend did not remain faithful to their halves, it is likely that he also learned the same behavior. Even if he verbally condemns his parents for treason, it will be difficult for him to refrain from them. After all, the most authoritative people for him did not consider it shameful to "instruct the horns" to each other. Loyalty to adultery in a man's family affects his family values. And he himself may turn out to be an unfaithful husband in his adult life.
Step 2
Ask him what he thinks about infidelity in general. Most people are not familiar with sociology, family psychology, or medical statistics. In response to any questions that require generalization, they give their opinions instead of facts. Sigmund Freud called this behavior "projection": it is attributing one's motives of behavior to others in the absence of reliable information about the reasons for their actions. If the man you are interested in assures that all men are cheating, that it is only a matter of time, etc., it is likely that he is judging by himself. In this case, you should rely on it with some caution.
Step 3
Take an interest in the guy's reputation among his friends and acquaintances. Of course, gossip and gossip is an unreliable source of information. And one opinion here may not mean anything. But if many people are inclined to believe that your counterpart may be wrong, then it is worth considering. It is unlikely that everyone at once conspired to slander the innocent lamb, because there is no smoke without fire. It is also worth finding out the reasons for his conflicts and breakups with his ex. And if he abandoned them for the sake of others or was left from him because of infidelity, then how can you believe that the same story will not repeat with you? There is a chance that he will settle down with age, but it is not very great.
Step 4
Find out which type of women he likes best. Summarize what his ex-girlfriends look like, what character they have. Or at least what type of screen stars grab his attention. Men can go beyond the usual type, but not for long. Until the first meeting with a typically "his" woman. If before he fell in love only with lush blondes, and you are a slender brunette, then there is a chance that sooner or later he will meet his ideal. And it turns out that you are not his berry at all. In addition, it can be helpful to take a look at your chosen one's mom. As a rule, men prefer women who are similar to her in appearance or character. If you have many of the same qualities, the risk of cheating may be noticeably lower than if you are not alike at all.
