Women and men are inhabitants of different planets. It is not surprising that the representatives of the stronger sex are so annoyed by some of the habits of lovely ladies. Men show a rare unanimity in describing the most annoying actions, so girls who recognize themselves in the description should think about it.
Thinking out loud
She always speaks, even when there is no interlocutor nearby. Comments about passers-by, childhood memories, plans for tonight, retelling of a conversation with a girlfriend or a conflict with a boss - the stream of thoughts is simply endless. Depending on the importance of the event, only the tonality and expressiveness changes.
Husbands with experience gradually stop noticing this endless stream of thought, from time to time inserting "Yes, dear" or "No dear". But not everyone achieves this advanced state. Men are especially annoyed by non-stop teachings and advice, as well as the demands of an adequate response to every line.
Sudden resentment for minor reasons
An hour ago she was cheerful and sociable, but suddenly something happened. The woman suddenly falls silent, answers questions in monosyllables, takes offense at jokes even more. To the direct question of what happened after all, there follows a mysterious answer: "I myself must guess." At this point, the thinking abilities of even the smartest man fail. He is simply unable to remember what happened at that hour during which his friend's mood changed dramatically.
An even more terrible scenario is sudden tears in response to a completely innocent remark or joke. The man does not realize that he is not to blame, it was just that he was the last straw in the general negative scenario of the day. Hormonal disruptions associated with pregnancy, breastfeeding, and taking certain medications worsen the condition.
Long fees and frequent delays
If the girl promised to be ready by seven, according to the man, exactly at the specified time she should stand at the door fully dressed, with a bag and keys in her hands. According to the girl herself, half-past six is the best time for recoloring nails or experimenting with a hairstyle. Naturally, by seven she is far from being ready, further training sessions last at least half an hour. However, further the most interesting thing awaits the man - the message that they are late due to the fact that he started the car for too long.
Passion for cleaning
A real woman should be a good housewife: a girl learns this information from early childhood. Well, the hostess must always maintain order in the house. As a result, a huge part of free time is spent on activities that are strange from the point of view of men: rubbing tiles to a shine, cleaning the bottoms of pots, endless straightening of blankets and pillows on the sofa. But the worst thing is throwing away unnecessary things. For some women, this activity takes on the character of mania.
It is interesting that the property of men most often falls into the category of unnecessary ones: favorite worn-out sweatpants, old dumbbells, filing magazines, various "pieces of iron" of unknown purpose. In a hurry, necessary things, for example, documents, can be thrown away. Only the army order in the room can avoid unscheduled cleaning, but you will have to maintain it yourself.
The desire to control everything
Psychologists believe that the need to control people and events is a natural reaction to external chaos. Men accept this theory, but they get very annoyed when they are constantly asked about feelings, thoughts, plans for the future and, especially, whereabouts. Perhaps the opposite reaction is triggered: the need to protect personal data.
The degree of control can vary. The most innocent option is frequent calls and messages when a man is at work, in the gym, or with friends. Such persistence may seem sweet only at the very beginning of a relationship, but it quickly tires.
The worst case scenario is direct questions. Constantly asking who he just talked to, why he came back half an hour later, or postponed the meeting, makes men dodge and lie. As a result, mutual distrust arises, and control only intensifies.
Men don't like increased self-control either. Living on an exact schedule, accompanied by nervous breakdowns due to the slightest shift in plans, can greatly annoy people who are used to spontaneous actions. A woman trying to completely control her own and someone else's life runs the risk of losing a partner.
The list of habits that infuriate men goes on. Much depends on age: representatives of the younger generation are usually more lenient towards girls. Relationships in a couple are also important. A man in love closes his eyes to many things, considering the annoying habits of his beloved cute eccentricities.
