Role-playing games are a great way to diversify your sex life, to bring something new into it. Sometimes even this can be a way to fulfill your dream - to become a doctor or an Arab dancer for a while. But it's interesting to play when two people are involved, and your husband may well not share such a hobby.
I don't play it
You meet your spouse dressed as a flight attendant, and he looks at you in bewilderment and asks what is for dinner today? There is a chance that he does not like this particular game, and not that he completely denies this kind of activity. Each widespread sexual fetish will find its lovers and opponents: some people like fishnets, some prefer to see white knee-highs on women, some are excited by the sight of a sexy nurse, while another recalls with a shudder how he was in the hospital. Before experimenting, talk to your husband and find out what attracts him. Perhaps he will not mind seeing a seductive policewoman or a shy student in his bed.
Some fantasies are extremely difficult to fulfill. If your man dreams of an alien princess from a science fiction movie, you risk spending a lot of time and money on the embodiment of such an image.
Bad actor
Role-playing takes a bit of acting ability. After all, you need not only to change clothes, but also to get used to the image: to feel like a superman or a slave, a secretary or a successful businessman. Your husband may refuse to role-play because he considers himself a mediocre actor, poorly aware of what manipulations a doctor should carry out with a patient, or poorly versed in the subject in which he is going to take an exam with you. Try to help your spouse overcome insecurity: choose simple stories, play along with him, and try not to laugh at failures.
Be content with little
Your husband doesn't like role-playing games, doesn't want to become the owner of a harem or transform into a stern police officer interrogating a daring thief? Try not to do a full-fledged role-play, but to bring only a few elements of it into your evening. Wearing an oriental dance costume, perform an impromptu act for your spouse, and then move to bed and make love.
If you like the cop fantasy, you don't have to do it all the way either - just try experimenting with handcuffs.
This is not his fantasy
A man can really be indifferent to role-playing games. He is not aroused by such dressing up, he considers buying a latex suit an unjustified waste of money, and he is used to playing the role of a stern boss at work and does not want to try on this image even at home. If any of your attempts cause persistent rejection, you can only resign yourself and come up with another way to diversify your sex life.
