The birth of a baby is undoubtedly a joy for parents. But how will sex work for a young couple after the birth of their spouse? There are many fears of new moms about their future sex life. Let's try to dispel them.
Instructions
Step 1
On the advice of gynecologists, a couple can enter into an intimate relationship 6 weeks after giving birth. This is primarily due to the fact that a woman may bleed or develop a genital infection up to endometritis. Therefore, it is better to abstain from sex ahead of schedule.
If the process of childbirth proceeded normally without intervention and consequences, then by the beginning of the 7th week after childbirth the uterus will contract to its previous size, therefore the couple can resume their sexual relations. True, the spouses face a number of problems.
Step 2
The first problem is unwillingness on the part of the spouse. Why does this feeling arise? After giving birth, a woman first of all cares and worries about her baby, she gets tired, does not get enough sleep. Sometimes he does not find understanding on the part of the spouse. And any hints about her husband's sex are perceived as a personal insult. To solve this problem, a man should take on part of the responsibilities of caring for an infant, and often take the baby to visit grandparents. Time for intimacy can be found not only at night, but also in the morning or afternoon, during the lunch break of the spouse. Hug and kiss each other more often, arrange secret dates while relatives spend time with the child.
Step 3
The second fear of a young mother is an imperfect figure after childbirth. A woman is afraid to dislike her husband in this form. Remember that extra pounds after childbirth are temporary. And if you make every effort, then you will return to your form very quickly. Nevertheless, even in this form, you can please your man. Remember to take the time to take care of yourself. Do your makeup, manicure, put on beautiful underwear and arrange for your spouse a romantic evening with candles and watching erotic films. The husband will be delighted.
Step 4
The third fear of women is the fear of pain during intercourse. Indeed, it will not be immediately comfortable and good during sex after childbirth, because many women have damaged nerve endings in the perineum as a result of ruptures or episiotomy. Sex after childbirth needs to be approached responsibly, start slowly and listen to each other. If a woman feels pain, you should change your posture or go to oral sex or petting. It is better to choose poses in which a woman can control penetration as much as possible. For example, the pose "Horsewoman" or lying on its side.
Step 5
The problem for a young couple during sex after childbirth is the dryness of the partner's genitals due to a lack of estrogen - the main female hormones. Therefore, the macaw experiences discomfort and inconvenience during sex. This problem is solved with moisturizing products - lubricants that can be purchased at pharmacies, supermarkets or sex shops. They are produced in the form of gels and creams, and also contribute to the healing of scars on the seams of the perineum. It is worth giving up lubricants with additives, dyes or hormones.
