Find the one that will be with you both in sorrow and in joy; both in wealth and in poverty; both in illness and in health. This is a natural desire for any man. But in order to find the woman of your dreams, you need to clearly imagine this dream and understand whether you are in line with your dream.
Instructions
Step 1
Ask yourself what qualities a woman should have in order to meet your requirements. Often, men cannot clearly describe their ideal and speak in clichés: smart, beautiful, good housewife. Remember, you are not choosing a food processor for your new kitchen to be both beautiful and functional. You are looking for a person who can share his life with you, an equally imperfect being.
Step 2
Write everything down on a piece of paper. On the same sheet, write how you can attract this woman. Just be extremely honest with yourself. After all, you are trying for the sake of your own future.
Step 3
Now critically evaluate how your qualities match the qualities of the one you want to find. Do you want too much when you can give yourself?
Step 4
Redefine your ideal. Do not start off from stereotypes and standards. Is it really important to you that she cooks perfectly? Or is it more important for you that she is a good conversationalist, reliable partner, easy-going person? Do you need her to have the perfect figure, or is it important for her to be fun and outgoing?
Step 5
Do not try to combine all the best qualities in one woman, otherwise you will never find your ideal.
Step 6
Keep an eye on women. Having met, do not make hasty conclusions, some qualities are revealed far from after the first date.
Step 7
Stop your choice on a woman who can share or at least understand your interests. Common points of contact are the key to a long-term relationship.
Step 8
Watch out for the tit while chasing the crane. Maybe there is a girl next to you that you like, but by coincidence you did not manage to get close, or you just never thought about a serious relationship with her. Friendly relations can sometimes move to a qualitatively new level. Your dream could be with you all this time.
Step 9
Feel free to ask your friends for advice. If you fail to build a relationship, then you constantly make the same mistakes or are too critical. True friends will tell you the truth, or maybe they will point to the girl you stubbornly did not notice. The one you like. The ideal woman is the one who loves you.
