Even before the appearance of humans on Earth, androgynous beings lived. They were both masculine and feminine. Androgynes were so perfect and self-sufficient that they became proud and ceased to recognize the power of the Gods. For this, Zeus divided them into two halves and scattered them around the world. Since then, people have been looking for their soul mate, but they rarely find it.
This is just a legend, but in fact, people are looking for and very rarely find the person of their dreams with whom they would like to live their whole life.
Dream man - what is he
Before looking for the man of your dreams, you should decide on the image of this dream. Some ladies want to see a strong and domineering person next to them who will fulfill all their whims and desires. But it doesn't work that way. A person is either domineering or not. If your ideal man fulfills all your whims, then he will never become a leader in a relationship. Get ready for the fact that you yourself will have to solve all important family issues - from what to cook for lunch, to such questions as what apartment to buy. If the man of your dreams will be the leader in the relationship, then get ready for the fact that everything in the family will be decided by him. The maximum that will be left to you is to choose the color of the wallpaper in the living room.
But if you have a perfectly acceptable list of those qualities that the man of your dreams should have, then your desire is quite feasible. At the same time, you should take off your rose-colored glasses and look at life realistically - it is impossible to find someone who will be kind, faithful, economic, strong, understanding and 100 more similar epithets. It is worth determining for yourself a few main qualities and focusing on them.
Where to find your soul mate
To find the man of your dreams, you should determine the main qualities that he will possess. In general, all men can be conditionally divided into two types - family men and bachelors.
This does not mean that the family man has been married for a long time. Such men may never marry at all. They just lead a quiet and relaxed lifestyle. They do not strive for a large crowd of people. Such men prefer quiet evenings with close friends. You can find them in a cafe near work, where they dine, perhaps at an exhibition or in a museum, and occasionally in a pub or restaurant in the evening. But most often such men are registered on a dating site.
Singles lead a fun and carefree lifestyle. Such men are rarely alone, as a rule, they are accompanied by a lady. It's difficult to pair with such a man. All you can hope for in most cases is a whirlwind, but fleeting romance. But getting to know such a man is much easier than meeting a family man. Bachelors are easier to make contact, and a couple of glances and a smile will be enough to get to know each other.
How to recognize the man of your dreams
Quite often, especially at a young age, girls reject fans only because they do not match the color of their eyes or did not come out in height. But some of the rejected guys are quite consistent with the character of the image of a dream. You shouldn't reject all the fans all at once. For a start, you can just make an acquaintance. After all, at first glance it is impossible to determine whether this is the right person. The character of a person is betrayed by his views on life. Of course, there is a high probability that even when communicating with a person for many years, you will not recognize him, but there is nothing you can do about it - there are such secretive specimens.
In general, in order to find the man of your dreams, sometimes you have to spend most of your life. Women who seek and do not find their ideal are left alone. So you shouldn't select men according to too strict criteria. Sometimes it happens that at the first and even at the second glance you do not understand that this is your love, and it passes by.
