Having met one of the ex-boyfriends, you see how the person has changed, matured and matured. Now, if only he was then! So I want to try to be together again, especially if the young man does not mind. How to start dating your ex-boyfriend?
Instructions
Step 1
Look back to the past. Jointly experienced situations, romantic walks, moments of intimacy presented to each other - you have something to remember. It is easy to start a conversation with someone from the past by referring to the events that connected you. Remember how you met. Your first kiss. Joint trip. Fond memories are relaxing and you will no longer be nervous.
Step 2
Move into the present. A couple cannot exist by living in the past. Organize a short walk when you can have a casual chat and "test the waters" for a romance revival. The meeting is not binding. If something goes wrong and you feel like you were wrong, you can always change your mind, referring to "just friendship." While walking, try to find out as much information as possible about the guy: how he lives now, what he enjoys, does he have a girlfriend, what plans for the future. These are common questions asked by people who have not seen each other for a long time. Analyze the answers and feel if you can find common ground between you now, without touching on past events. If the guy is still close to you, there is a chance to revive the relationship. If you feel that “something is wrong,” it means that all this time you were in illusions. Think about why your personal life is not so convenient for you now, that you are running away from it into a relationship from the past, passed stage?
Step 3
Turn to unfulfilled dreams. Sometimes a relationship ends in such a way that a sense of understatement persists. Therefore, at times, you so want to return to them and do what should have happened. Share your dreams with your boyfriend, tell him that you had hope and, perhaps, the desire to make fantasies come true is still present in your mind. If the young man does not mind reviving the relationship, this may be the reason for the development of the novel. If your guy is not in the mood to start dating you, ask him to pay attention to unfulfilled dreams. Just one conversation and joint discussion of this topic will ease the state and relieve you of illusions.
Step 4
If you feel that everything is going harmoniously, and the relationship can be revived, hint the guy that he should meet again. You can meet where you first kissed, and the memories will help you connect again. Or, conversely, you can go to a new romantic place as a sign that a new chapter has begun in the book of living together.
