Online dating is one of the most common types of dating in our time. But still, many girls feel embarrassed when they send the first message to the guy they like. And this awkwardness can ruin a relationship in the bud.
Instructions
Step 1
First, carefully look at the guy's page. Start dating only if everything suits you. Pay attention to the music he listens to, the videos he adds, and, of course, his photographs. If you are not sure that you want to communicate with this person, then it is better not to send him a message. If you didn't like him in some way even before you met, then it is most likely that after meeting he will completely disappoint you.
Step 2
If you like everything in the guy's page, feel free to send a message. Of course, you should think it over in advance. Find a common topic of conversation. For example, he listens to the same music as you. Write to him that you also like this group (performer). Ask the question, what is his favorite composition or why he likes this particular direction.
Step 3
If he has downloaded movies on his page, ask him which one he would recommend to you. You have to write a message that the guy is guaranteed to answer. And the easiest way to do this is with a question. Moreover, it should not be trivial. You should not be interested in how he is doing or what he is doing. Many people simply do not respond to such questions.
Step 4
If you have not found common hobbies, find something in his photo, about which you can ask an interesting and unusual question. If he's wearing a nice T-shirt in the photo, you can ask where he got one. Just do not forget to clarify what you are interested in for your brother or father, for example. Otherwise, he may think that your boyfriend needs the information.
Step 5
You can start communication with a joke. But this is only if there is funny or funny information on the guy's page. If it is not there, then you should not risk it. There is a possibility that on your way there was a person who does not understand humor. And then your message will remain unanswered.