Dating sites have become a real salvation for single people who cannot muster the courage to strike up a conversation on the street. Enough, having recognized a person by correspondence, it is easier to start a relationship in person. Of course, it is much easier to respond to the greeting phrases of persons interested in your person. But it is also important to be able to start a conversation yourself.
Instructions
Step 1
When you register on a dating site and fill out your page, look for people who are suitable for you to communicate. Don't wait to get interested in you, try to strike up a written "conversation" yourself.
Step 2
Carefully read the profile of the person you find attractive. Note his hobbies, hobbies, and interests. Look for something in common with you, points of contact and similarities in tastes. It has long been proven that people with completely different habits find it difficult to get along on the same territory.
Step 3
You can start a conversation by discussing hobbies. For example, if you like the same direction in music, greet the person and ask if he went to a concert of your favorite band. This opening of a conversation is harmless enough and will not cause a negative reaction from the stranger.
Step 4
In the future, subject to ease of communication, you can agree to attend the performances of the artists together. It is better for you to study all the information about the subject of conversation in advance so as not to seem like an ignorant person.
Step 5
The same applies to interests such as fishing, philately, any craft. If you liked a person's hobby and wanted to do the same, ask how you could do it. Passionate people are happy to answer questions about a subject of interest.
Step 6
Banal phrases “Girl, you are adorable! Let's go to the movies”or the emoticons with meaning are already tired and will not make you want to answer. But if you show your interest in the person as a person with special passion, you yourself will interest the interlocutor. Do not insist on meeting soon, it can be alarming.
Step 7
But not everyone writes detailed information about themselves in their profile. Sometimes there is so little of it that it is difficult to start communication based on this minimal information. In this case, humor will come to your aid. “Young man, your turnout has failed! I urgently need to send you a message from the chief! We will meet at the fountain, I will have a bouquet of 133 daisies in my hands”. It is unlikely that the young man will miss such a message.
Step 8
The girl can be interested in the following phrases: “Today you are invited to test different cakes and coffee. Choose an institution yourself”,“A bouquet of scarlet roses and a charming blue plush kitten were found. By all accounts, you are their mistress. When can the loss be handed over to you? Show your imagination and start communicating, because in the virtual world you can correct an unsuccessful phrase before you send a message. In real life, there is no such chance.
