Every person, boy or girl, at least once in their life experienced a feeling of awkwardness when meeting with the object of their adoration. It seems that the person you like is so close, but, nevertheless, you feel fear and awe. What is the best way to organize a meeting with a girl? How to ask her out on the first date? How to invite to meet? Almost every young man asks himself these questions.
Instructions
Step 1
First, you need to clearly outline the goal, and then follow it with decisive steps. So, your goal is to invite the girl to date. To do this, you must first invite her out on a date. Be confident in yourself, speak clearly and clearly, in a calm and even voice, because future success or failure depends on your proposal. So, she agrees, and you are not yourself with joy.
Step 2
But this is not yet a victory. Next, you need to think over all the details of your first meeting. It is better to choose a place for a date that is quiet and cozy. It can be a small cafe or restaurant. Your goal is to show your best side. Be polite, orderly, maintain a conversation, and if the girl is embarrassed, do not be silent, continue the conversation. On a first date, you can discuss topics that are neutral for the two of you: new music, movies, childhood experiences or school memories. On the first date, you shouldn't go into the details of a football match with your favorite team or discuss a computer shooting game you have passed. Not every girl on the first date will appreciate it, but the next case may not be presented.
Be sure to accompany the girl after the date, tell her how pleasant it was for you to spend time with her and that you hope for further communication. Don't ask a girl to date right away on the first date if you haven't met her before. Give her time to think it over, weigh it. If she agrees to a second meeting, consider it a victory. Now you can safely offer her your friendship with all the ensuing consequences. Do not forget flowers for the second date, the girl will be very pleased with such a surprise.