Your chosen one can be smart, handsome, courageous, successful, honest and the best for you. However, your happy life together may be overshadowed by his ex. The degree of her presence can vary - from daily forced meetings to painful memories. Regardless, you can help the guy forget this girl.
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Instructions
Step 1
Memorize all the information you get about his ex-girlfriend. If she still means a lot to him, you can't ignore her. Find out how she lives, what is happening in her personal life, how deep the relationship was between her and your boyfriend. To do this, do not spy on the girl at all. A page on a social network, stories of friends are enough. But of course, the most important information for you is the one that the young man shares himself. This is how you can figure out how he feels about his ex now. The search for information should be one-time. Take note of everything you have learned, draw conclusions and no longer be interested in her person.
Step 2
If your boyfriend and his ex-girlfriend have had a tumultuous relationship or an excruciating breakup, you need to be patient. If you really want to be with this person, don't rush things. What he still experiences only testifies to his sincerity. Gradually, you will feel that the young man remembers his old passion less and less. Anxiety should be beaten only when his memories turn into an obsession, and you only serve as temporary consolation.
Step 3
Eliminate anything that reminds you of your ex-girlfriend from your life. This can be certain music, places where they have been, donated things. Remove associations gradually but systematically.
Step 4
Do not categorically prohibit any contact with an ex-girlfriend, thereby limiting the freedom of the young man. Greet if he himself admits to seeing her. Demonstrate, however, that you are a little unpleasant when they meet. If they have to meet at work or in a circle of mutual acquaintances, it is much better if this happens in front of your eyes, and not secretly.
Step 5
Be yourself and never compare yourself to his ex-girlfriend. Demonstrate your self-sufficiency to the young man, fill your life with interesting events, make new mutual friends. And very soon, the memories of your ex won't trigger any emotion in your boyfriend.
