When breaking up with a girl, even if there were reasons for that, guys often experience mental pain. If this happened to your friend, try to comfort him, otherwise the depression can drag on for a long time.
Instructions
Step 1
Find out the reason your friend broke up with his girlfriend. It is she who will be of key importance for the further conversation. Politely ask the guy to tell you in detail what happened, how long ago, and why.
Step 2
Try to convince your friend that the reason for the breakup was really serious, and there was simply no other way out. Tell him that, of course, he is right in this situation and acted like a real man, not allowing himself and his girlfriend to suffer from unnecessary relationships.
Step 3
Ask if your boyfriend had deep feelings for his ex. If the answer is negative, you will only have to praise him again for the fact that he did not tolerate and immediately left the girl, to whom "the soul does not lie." If your friend answered yes, convince him that the feeling was fleeting, and soon he will completely forget about it.
Step 4
Discuss the girl you ended up with. Find out what her flaws were, but do it as carefully as possible so as not to hurt the guy's feelings even more. Tell him that he did the right thing to stop dating a girl who doesn't deserve him.
Step 5
Tell your friend that there are a lot of good girls around, and a confident guy like him will definitely find a new object for a relationship. Tell us what other strengths the guy has to give him even more confidence.
Step 6
Engage your friend in some fun activity that will help him to forget about personal problems. It is better if it is purely masculine, for example, go fishing or even hunting, to a sports match, supporting your favorite team. And, of course, sports are one of the best cures for depression: sign up with a friend in a gym and devote some time to hard training.
Step 7
Try helping a friend find a new girlfriend if he wants to start a new relationship as soon as possible. If you know a lonely and interesting girl, try arranging a meeting for them, or visit one of the city's entertainment venues together and help the guy get to know someone.
