It is probably impossible to find a person who has never been deceived in his entire life. And it's good if the matter was limited to good-natured friendly jokes, "jokes". It is much worse when the deception entailed serious consequences, caused damage. And from such an unpleasant scenario, no one is immune. Therefore, there is nothing surprising in the fact that a person often puzzles over the question: is his interlocutor telling the truth, is he not deceiving? After all, you cannot read other people's thoughts.
Instructions
Step 1
It should be clarified right away that the proposed methods, of course, do not and cannot give a 100% guarantee. But with a very high degree of probability, using them, you can either catch the deceiver in a lie, or at least suspect that they want to deceive you.
Step 2
Try to keep a close eye on the person you are talking to. If he answers your questions clearly, concisely, to the point, chances are he is sincere. If it starts to "beat around the bush", floods you with a stream of information that is not directly related to the case, then you should be wary. It should be noted that some people, especially women, do not know how to speak succinctly. Even when answering the simplest question, they certainly need to "wander in three pines." Therefore, this feature is only reliable when combined with others.
Step 3
Watch the expression on the face of the interlocutor, follow the gestures. Especially when it comes to an important, delicate matter. Pay special attention to your eyes. If during the conversation the interlocutor avoids looking into your eyes, looks away, most likely, he is afraid of being caught in a lie.
Step 4
If the interlocutor laughs cheerfully, but his eyelids are still at the same time, the emotions are almost certainly played out. The fact is that the circular muscles responsible for the movements of the eyelids contract reflexively, regardless of the person's desire. Think: for what purpose does a person pretend to be funny when in fact he is not having fun? Is it because he wants to make a good impression on you, to inspire confidence?
Step 5
Some gestures can also testify to his insincerity, tension. For example, he often touches the tip of his nose or earlobe, or while pronouncing a phrase, your interlocutor instinctively presses his fingers or a clenched fist to his face near the corner of his mouth.
Step 6
If the interlocutor's fingers often clench-unclench or he fiddles with the tip of a mustache or curl, most likely he is lying. Try to show elementary attentiveness, vigilance, which has nothing to do with unhealthy paranoia, and then you will be able to avoid deception.
