Love is one of the most sublime feelings experienced by a person. Lovers promise to be faithful to each other, but their relationship does not always stand the test of time. Lying is becoming one of the main obstacles that stand in their way.
Lying cannot be considered an integral quality of a person, it is an acquired vice. The purer a person's soul is, the less need he has to lie; at some stage of spiritual ascent, a lie simply becomes unthinkable. But few people reach this level, therefore, for the majority, lying, within certain limits, turns out to be quite a common and familiar phenomenon. As long as there is no loved one around, the habit of lying, even on trifles, does not cause any inconvenience - on the contrary, it makes life easier and more comfortable. Everything changes when love comes. It's one thing to lie to someone. And it is completely different for the one you love.
The main difficulty is that love and lies are incompatible. In the language of religion, the first is from God, the second is from the devil. A lie always speaks about something that does not exist, and this is its main difference from the truth. When a person falls in love, the incompatibility of love and lies begins to manifest itself especially sharply. Lying becomes something unthinkable, impossible - how can you lie looking into the eyes of your loved one?
However, lying in families is quite common. The reason for this is that love and infatuation are often mistaken for love. There is no exaggeration in the words that lovers communicate with souls - at the energetic level, loving people are connected by thousands of invisible threads. The intersection, the consonance of souls is so great that two people, in fact, become one. Very often they understand each other without words, feel the desires of their second half, perceive her pain as their own. In this case, the main need becomes the desire to give something, to give, to do something pleasant, and not to take and receive.
Falling in love, temporary infatuation differ from love in that the harmony of souls does not arise. There is a small energetic contact, while falling in love with a person for something. This is an important point: true love is not conditioned by anything, it arises precisely through the merging of souls. Being in love, being carried away, needs something for which a person can be loved. Although the very word "love" in this case is incorrect, since there is no true love. There is a craving for the object of adoration - for his appearance, for some qualities, real or imaginary. But when the desired becomes available, it quickly becomes boring, bored. Falling in love disappears, a person begins to understand that there was no love, that he made a mistake. If a family has already been created by this time, a dilemma arises - one must either disagree or live with an unloved person. It is in the latter case that the most fertile ground for lies arises. Quite often, it is present from the very beginning if the marriage is of convenience. There is no love, a person considers himself entitled to seek entertainment on the side. Lying becomes necessary, allows you to hide violations of marital fidelity.
When love is real, deception is impossible. Moreover, it is impossible not because "it is impossible", but because no one else is simply needed by another person. The very possibility of lying seems inconceivable. Sometimes, however, deception can still take place, but it also comes from love. This is the case when lies are saved. Protecting your loved one from any anxieties or worries, you can sometimes lie, but such a lie cannot even be called a lie as such, since it is based not on self-interest, but on love.
