Virtual communication has become so tightly embedded in our life that people use SMS to make dates, confess their love, build and break relationships. Sometimes an unsuccessful or inopportune word sent can fundamentally kill an emerging relationship. What you need to know in order for SMS to contribute to the correct correspondence, which will spice up the relationship and add intrigue.
Instructions
Step 1
The high speed of message transmission creates the illusion that you need to respond as quickly as soon as you receive a short "How are you?" But do not rush, be patient for at least half an hour! Be guided at least by the fact that the answer must be carefully considered. Do not hesitate, at the other end of the communication, the young man is all worn out in anticipation of an answer, and will be delighted with him much more than he would have come right away. Let the guy pretend to be busy with his own business, in fact, he constantly glances at the phone in anticipation of the long-awaited signal about the received SMS.
Step 2
And finally, a short but succinct answer has been invented. Necessarily short! After all, the classic was right one hundred percent, saying that "brevity is the sister of talent." The length of the messages shows who is more interested in communication. The fact that you answer a man is already a gift for him and an indicator of interest in communication. Therefore, two words should not be answered with long narratives, otherwise a man from a hunter for a girl will turn into a killer of relationships. Send the answer no earlier than after double waiting time for SMS from him. Wait 10 minutes? Answer in 20!
Step 3
No unnecessary symbols and signs, emoticons and winks. It often happens that a girl wanted to send a heart, but sent a boxer. It turns out instead of "kiss" - "kick". All images and sensations should be born in his head! Try to imagine a cigarette. Happened? What is she like? Lit in someone's hands or lying peacefully in a bundle? Each of us will have his own picture, and the main rule in SMS correspondence is for our counterpart to conjecture the images sent in the right direction.
Step 4
An important moment of creating your image when writing SMS. You can type text only from the state of a girl in a million, a girl of self-confidence and her own irresistibility! A girl who has fans in line and has dates scheduled months in advance! Hence another rule - if the SMS from him came on Friday - you do not answer until Sunday evening! Even if you have nothing to do but watch TV! Go to a concert, cinema, ballet! Let alone, but with dignity!
Step 5
To escalate emotions to the limit, ask non-standard questions or intriguing associations associated with it. This can be either an SMS about love, or a message that he is a creepy bastard. The main thing is to apologize later, explaining that the number was wrong. The main indicator of his interest is his questions, which means he thinks about you! The thought process is running in the right direction.
Step 6
Do not write SMS just like that out of boredom. Any message should have a goal - to motivate him to take certain actions:
make a date, look after you, win and seek your attention,
make a gift, make you fall in love with yourself or turn on emotionally.
In any case, the SMS should be related to the man, and not about the fact that you and your girlfriend went to the sale today.
