Do moms and dads often complain to their friends about their own lazy children? They forget about what they were in childhood, demanding from the children immediate energetic activity and impeccable fulfillment of all requirements.
Of course, there are a lot of lazy children in modern society, but do not forget that there are many of the same adults. The reasons for children's laziness should be sought at the age of the child. When a child attends a preschool childcare institution, outdoor games and emotional stress put the strongest pressure on him.
A kid should by no means be considered lazy if his reduced activity is observed at home. In the event that his parents will force him to carry out any assignments, for example, to remove toys, he will simply become capricious. For a young child, going to kindergarten is a kind of work. And since adults get tired for a whole working day, accumulating irritation to everything around them, babies also get tired.
Younger schoolchildren, due to their age, cannot do the same thing all the time, especially if they are not interested in it. It is also worth taking a look at the children's daily routine, because modern parents are not limited to one school activity.
At the age of 7 - 10, children begin to attend clubs, play music, and so on. Not surprisingly, they get bored with the whole thing very quickly. It is for this reason that they refuse to make music at home. What parents might think of as laziness is actually trivial fatigue.
At the age of 11, the child begins to actively communicate with peers, which is much more pleasant than home cleaning or any errands. Based on this, parents should discuss their home scheduling schedule with their children.
But there are situations when a child does not have friends, and he spends whole days at the computer, and it is absolutely impossible to interrogate him.
It should not be considered laziness that if he refuses to go to school and do homework, perhaps he has a bad relationship with teachers and classmates.
It is easier to get a toddler to talk than an older child.
The child himself must realize that he has the same responsibilities as all family members. In the event that he did not fulfill something, for example, did not wash the dishes after himself, the punishment can be applied - pick up the most beloved toy. But it is better to teach from childhood to help you, even if it seems to you that he is too small.
