Why do you need a guy? To take care, love, look into his eyes and know that you are loved too … To walk by the hand and in the arms of a guy to forget about the pain that people around him bring … To rejoice and experience with him … And on weekends, wallow and watch your favorite movie together … To help in difficult times, to swear and put up in five minutes … But not all guys need guys for this, so do you need a guy?
Instructions
Step 1
So how do you know if you need a guy or not? Very simple. If you need a person for any purpose who can be called “your boyfriend”, then, of course, in this case, you need a guy! And if there are no reasons, or there are reasons that directly say that any "my boyfriend" will only be a hindrance, then of course, under such circumstances, a guy is not needed. "But", as always, this word appears when a problem already, at first glance, has been resolved and makes us think that, in fact, this issue is very difficult. Where, for example, would a fourteen-year-old girl have doubts when one morning it occurs to her that she absolutely needs someone whom she could call a "boyfriend"? Putting the vulgar thoughts aside, suppose that yesterday another girl of the same age said that she already had a real boyfriend. At that moment, lightning flashed in the head of the fourteen-year-old girl, and the thunder of envy went like a shock wave throughout her body. "I also want to!" - a reason arose, and soon, as a result, a guy appeared who did not even know that he had become only an instrument of getting rid of envy. After a while, a conflict most likely arises between them, and, figuratively speaking, with a trauma to her heart, the girl cries all night long in her bed. As a conclusion: it is unlikely that teenagers so young could understand whether they need a boyfriend or not.
Step 2
At a more mature age, the sexual aspect comes to the fore in the relationship of both sexes. This aspect, in the background, is usually followed by the fact of social relations, i.e. how do not only your friends treat you, but also completely strangers. And when these two aspects are connected, then the girl, in order not to be known throughout the whole district as "overly accessible", has to call her lover - a guy and refer to the seriousness of the relationship.
Other girls continue the policy of a fourteen-year-old girl and start dating guys, just to “show off” in front of their friends, because the feeling of female envy has not yet been canceled. Usually, such girls soon also remain insulted, and even humiliated, but continue to "bend their line."
Step 3
Sometimes for girls, girls, having a boyfriend is a kind of border before which they were still children, and beyond which they became adults. In their eyes, they grew up for several years in one day. It's the same with smoking. Therefore, it is precisely this desire for you to have a boyfriend that should be regarded as a bad habit.
Step 4
But the main indicator of whether you need a guy or not, if you mean by this word a person who is very dear to you, to whom you feel more than affection, is an ordinary heart. And, as you know, you cannot order your heart to love one person and keep it away from the other, but you can order your consciousness to save your heart from heavy shocks.
Step 5
How do you know if you need a guy or not? Never be guided by selfish motives in this matter. This is not a point in life where you can put a tick, then erase it, and put it a few more times. Nobody, of course, is immune from mistakes, but at least those that happen through our fault must be avoided.
Step 6
If you love a person and want to always spend time with him, feel his closeness to yourself as much as possible, then it makes no difference how to call this person - friend, boyfriend or husband. Just be with him always.
