Sometimes it's not easy to sort out your own feelings. It is difficult to say exactly what you feel for a person - sympathy or love. But if you listen to your feelings, you can understand yourself and determine your feelings.
Signs that a guy is interesting
When you are around this young man, shyness that is atypical for you appears. You are afraid to say an extra word so as not to look stupid in his eyes. Thoughts are confused and it is difficult to focus on what is happening.
Topics by themselves move to the discussion of the object of love. You talk with admiration about his jokes and tricks. You try to find out from your friends the opinion of him, and from his acquaintances you elicit information about him. Sometimes this can manifest itself unconsciously, and you do not notice such signs behind you. Ask a close friend if his name appears too often in your conversations.
You listen carefully to his stories. Learn with interest his passions, favorite films, games, music or books. Then you study, trying to understand it better in this way. Try to find common interests and topics so you can start a conversation and get a little closer to it.
At night, you have romantic dreams with his participation. Sometimes the subconscious mind understands feelings much faster than the mind and suggests the necessary solution through dreams. But sometimes it can only be caused by your thoughts about whether you like the guy or not. So you try on the role of a lover and evaluate your reaction to it.
Signs that a guy likes
However, there is a small line between “just cute” and “really like it”. All of the above signs show that you are interested in the boy, but do not show love. But if, in addition to them, you notice the symptoms listed below, there are definitely feelings.
All his jokes seem funny, even if you laugh at them alone. Each of his stories captivates you, you are ready to listen to him all day long. You are trying to guess your meetings in order to "accidentally" meet and look at him for an extra minute.
If he touches you, even by accident, your heart starts to beat faster. You may feel dizzy and flush with excitement on your cheeks.
Your gaze constantly returns to the object of love. Even if he is behind you, you will try to find a reason to look back and quietly glance at him. And if your eyes meet, look away excitedly.
If you are still in doubt about your feelings, add a little imagination. Imagine that he is kissing you. Do you feel disgusted? Or does such a thought seem pleasantly exciting and desirable to you? And if instead of a kiss you imagine a bed scene? Find answers to these questions, and then you can sort out your feelings.
