Men are sometimes as touchy as women. They leave, withdraw into themselves, commit rash aggressive acts or pretend that they do not care. Sometimes it is not easy to realize that you have hurt your loved one a lot.
Instructions
Step 1
All representatives of the stronger sex are different, therefore, their reaction to an offense can be very different. Some men, upon hearing unpleasant words addressed to them, immediately declare their dissatisfaction. In this case, the conflict can be resolved quite quickly - you can discuss the situation and, if necessary, apologize.
Step 2
It will be much more difficult with a representative of the stronger sex, who, after your words, will withdraw into himself, slam the door and leave to spend the night with a friend. In such a situation, it is sometimes useless to run after and shout "I'm sorry". The man turns off the phone, he does not want to see and hear you. Wait for the return of the cooled gentleman. Then you can discuss your conflict and choose the right words to restore a warm, trusting atmosphere between you.
Step 3
You understand that you have said too much, and the man pretends that he does not care. He indifferently buries himself at the TV and pretends that all that interests him at the moment is the reproduction of meerkats, which is shown on the popular science channel. Unless your young man is a biologist in love with his profession, this behavior is a defensive reaction. You need to put up with such an offended man patiently and for a long time, calmly and affectionately explaining your claims to him and listening to his arguments.
Step 4
Some men act like children. A careless word escaped you, and the young man is already looking at you in confusion and blinks his eyes. In the heat of resentment, like a capricious child, he can tell you too much. And that you yourself are like that, and you cook tasteless, and going to the gym will not save you, and indeed he has no romantic feelings at all.
The main thing in this situation is not to get lost. The man, most likely, does not think so at all, he wants to hurt you the same way you hurt him. Wait for both of you to cool down and then invite him to talk about what happened. If you really did something bad and feel guilty, you can appease your partner with gifts, because children love surprises.
