As a rule, men who are afraid of losing their wife are susceptible to jealousy, have self-doubt and suspicions that there are men around their wife who have a lot of advantages over their husbands. In some cases, jealousy allows you to renew old feelings, the power of love and attraction. However, in most cases, jealousy poisons the spouses' life, makes it unbearable. Often, the husband literally harasses his wife with an increasing number of claims, reproaches and insults, leading to despair and hatred.
The main reasons for a husband's jealousy
Often, the main reason for a husband's jealousy is the fact of his own infidelity. The fear arises that if other women agree to spend time with him, there is a possibility that the wife will allow herself to similar behavior with other men.
Men who are not able to withstand competition and resist other men can arrange scenes of jealousy for their wife only for the purpose of self-affirmation at her expense.
It is worth noting that often manifestations of jealousy, accompanied by attacks of aggression, appear in men with various nervous deviations and disorders. It is worth keeping as far as possible from such people, not starting a relationship with them, and breaking the connection with the marriage.
How your husband responds to jealousy
First of all, it is necessary to reduce the number of reasons for jealousy. Short skirts, bright makeup and frequent communication with strangers can really provoke feelings of jealousy.
It is recommended to mention as often as possible in conversations with your husband about the strength of feelings for him, and also that he is the best in all aspects. This will slightly dispel doubts about the weakening of love for him.
In no case should one react emotionally to accusations, deny them, and shift the topic to a discussion of the husband's actions. Such a reaction will only convince the man of the possible guilt. You need to keep your cool, calm, and confident. One of the solutions to this problem may be to temporarily go to the next room to give the husband time to cool down and calm down.
It should be explained to the husband what feelings arise as a result of unfounded accusations. It can be reported that reproaches offend, and yet he, as a husband, should be the most reliable support and protection.
Thus, the best reaction to the husband's jealousy is a sincere and calm dialogue, the absence of reprimands.
