Unfortunately, the problem of alcoholism in some families is very acute. If the husband began to get drunk often, the wife needs to take action as soon as possible, otherwise the consequences can be very unpleasant.
Instructions
Step 1
Don't wait for your husband to come to his senses. If you have repeatedly asked him not to drink alcohol, and he ignored your requests, then it's time to move on to decisive action. First of all, gently and tactfully invite your husband to seek help from a qualified specialist. The sooner treatment is started, the more chances a man will get rid of alcohol addiction.
Step 2
Try talking to your husband about his drinking. If, when asked to go to the doctor, he begins to get angry and shout, if he lies to you as if he had drunk quite a bit, and he himself is barely standing, try to seek advice from a narcologist or psychologist on your own to determine further actions in your situation.
Step 3
Try to identify in which situations your husband is drinking and then rule them out. If he has nothing to do and he drinks alcoholic drinks out of boredom, help him find a hobby. If he occasionally works unofficially and receives vodka as payment, convince him to either refuse this way of earning money, or from receiving alcohol instead of money.
Step 4
Pay attention to your husband's behavior, his relationship with you, with colleagues and friends. It is not uncommon for men to drink because of family and work problems. Try to support him, be gentle and patient, do not quarrel over trifles. Take an interest in his life and work, try to help as much as you can, provide moral support. Make it a pleasure for him to spend evenings and weekends with you.
Step 5
Consider if you want to stay with your husband. If you've done your best but haven't been able to get things done, you may need to get a divorce. This is especially true when the drunk husband raises his hand against you or the child. If you can't get rid of alcohol addiction, then by divorce you will at least save yourself and your children from beatings.
