Girls do not choose who to give their heart to, and fall in love with young people along with their merits and demerits. You can easily put up with some disadvantages, but if the guy loves to drink, this will become a problem.
Intimate talk
Talk to your boyfriend calmly. Tell us how worried you are that he often drinks alcohol. Tell that next to the drunk gentleman you do not feel safe, it is unpleasant for you to kiss him, you cannot, lying on the couch, buried in his chest, as the clothes smell of fumes. Do not shout, do not refer to the opinion of friends about your man, do not say that you are ashamed to be near him - this will cause reciprocal aggression. You only talk about the two of you, so say what you don't like.
Understand and help
Drinking regularly must have a reason, and if you understand what is pushing the young man to the bottle, it will be easier for you to deal with the problem. Perhaps he is dissatisfied with himself and his appearance, considers himself boring and uninteresting, embarrassed and feels uncomfortable in your presence. Or he is not satisfied with his work, he believes that he has achieved little, but at the same time he is in constant tension and cannot relax. If you know what the problem is, you can help solve it. Help the guy to find his image that will be pleasant to him, tell us how good you are with him, how smart and interesting he is. Encourage you to find a new job, suggest effective stress-relieving techniques: perhaps you could play sports together or walk more often in nature. If the problem lies in finding the meaning of life, which the young man is not able to discern without alcohol, it is likely that this situation requires the consultation of a psychologist. However, all these methods are only good if the guy wants to solve the problem as much as you do. Otherwise, you will only waste your time.
And here is the squirrel
Many drinkers do not consider themselves alcoholics until they receive clear evidence of this - hallucinations. Usually at this moment they are finally, scared, take up their minds and ask for help. If you are desperate and ready to do anything to get your loved one to stop drinking, try to play him. Tint the water in the decanter with brilliant green, take a couple of domestic rats from a friend and let them walk around the apartment, ask a neighbor friend who is aware of your problem to hide on the balcony in a foil hat and periodically look out from there and examine the young man through binoculars. Answer all the questions of a perplexed guy that you see nothing of the kind. A frustrated young man will most likely offer himself to call an ambulance. However, be careful, because in some cases, people who drink can behave extremely unpredictable.
