If there is a betrayal of one of the spouses, everyone immediately begins to think that the love has passed. After all, a loving person cannot show disrespect and humiliate his half in this way. But psychologists have their own point of view, according to which cheating can only speak of a crisis in a relationship, and not that feelings are gone.
Relationships are stalled and need to get off the ground
This situation can happen unknowingly. The transition to a new stage of relations requires a certain crisis situation. For some, such a situation becomes treason, which, according to one of the partners, can revive the relationship, or put an end to it.
Desire for self-determination
Even in a happy marriage, one of the spouses may have doubts that he is living the way he once wanted. If the answer is positive, then there is no threat to the relationship, but with a negative answer, the search for new sensations may begin, including with a new sexual partner.
Randomness
There are situations when cheating occurs spontaneously. This may be the fault of alcohol, a certain emotional state, leading to a mistake that will be difficult to correct.
Family crisis
Female and male infidelities are often caused by the appearance of a child in the family. The man explains the betrayal by the fact that his wife does not devote time to him, does not take care of herself, and is gaining weight. A woman can be pushed into treason by a way out of the decree. Isolation is over, the woman reappears in society, and here fresh emotions await her, and with them an affair on the side.
Thirst for experience
Early marriages, the absence of sexual partners before a relationship can lead to the fact that one of the partners begins to feel that he could receive more varied emotions and sensations if he had more partners. Yes, and the first love passes, and the spouses begin to see that life is not limited only to relationships. As a rule, treason in this case ends with the breakdown of the relationship.
Revenge
Lack of attention, rudeness, betrayal often turn into the fact that the offended partner is trying to avenge the wrongs caused by the betrayal.
Curiosity
In the absence of a full and varied sexual life in marriage, a feeling begins to appear (sometimes deceiving) that it will be better with another person. The situation is often dead-end - the betrayal did not get better, the feelings turned out to be the same, but the relationship after the affair is under threat.
Trying to be convinced of femininity or masculinity
It happens that sex life cools down, a man ceases to feel confident in himself, and a woman ceases to be desirable. To prove to himself otherwise, one of the partners (and sometimes both) tries to regain self-confidence with the other partner.
