Relationships between people are a very fragile matter. If one day you miss the opportunity to be with a girl who is really dear to you, there is practically no chance of getting everything back. Therefore, if a break with a loved one still happened, you need to try to survive it and draw certain conclusions from what happened. But how to survive parting with someone who until recently was the most important person on earth for you?
Instructions
Step 1
Get rid of reminders about the girl you broke up with. This in no way means a solemn burning at the stake of your common things, gifts and photographs. Just put everything you can in a box and send it to the pantry to collect dust. Trust me, despite the temper tantrums that are likely to take hold of you right now, over time, these reminders will go from unpleasant to something that makes you smile. Therefore, just remove everything that reminds you that you were together recently, out of sight and wait for the grandchildren to appear to show them all this.
Step 2
Try to distract yourself from sad thoughts. Go with your friends to have fun - movies, football, rides, joint trips to the bar (the main thing in the bar is not to go overboard and not lose face) - everything that you previously denied yourself due to being in a relationship. The more often someone you are comfortable with is next to you, the sooner you will remember the joys of an ordinary bachelor life and, most likely, you will feel much lighter.
Step 3
Bring something new into your life that you didn't have time for before. For example, it can be a new hobby, or a new computer game, or an interesting book. Find yourself a pleasant and, most importantly, a new kind of entertainment. By the way, it can be not only leisure, you can find yourself a new job and go headlong into building relationships with a new team. Remember, the more new and exciting, the less memories of old spiritual wounds.
Step 4
Start looking for a new passion. After all, your girlfriend was not the last female to suit you, although at first it seems very different. However, take the first step - go to a club or a group of friends and start chatting with attractive girls. You will see that there are a lot of people who are pleasant to you among them. It is not good for anyone to go in cycles, so just move on and everything old will disappear by itself, and the experiences will stop tormenting you.
