"Mum! I don `t want to go to school!" What is hidden behind these childish words? The child is not always comfortable at school. It is not good if he goes every day to meet humiliation, insults, poking, bullying by adults and children.
Instructions
Step 1
It is impossible to live a life for a child, but it is possible to protect him from actions that break the child's psyche. The school provides not only knowledge, but also invaluable experience in building relationships with peers. Quarrels and resentments, unfair treatment are inevitable, but loving parents can help so that quarrels and conflicts do not develop into a cruel attitude towards the child. In order not to miss the occurrence of such a situation and to protect your dear little man, try to be attentive when meeting your child from school. If you notice that your child often comes home bruised, his clothes are torn or looks like she was mopped on the floor, and your child is more and more withdrawn and does not burn with the desire to go to the hated school at all, it's time to sound the alarm before it's too late …
Step 2
Go to school regularly, talk to teachers. But don't go overboard. You cannot constantly be there and protect the child from problems.
Step 3
Get to know your friends and classmates, and if possible, their parents as well. Try to talk with your child more often, discuss various issues. Ask what you could do in such a situation, and how in this one. Play conflicts before they arise. If a child has experience in solving problem situations (even if it is a play experience), it will be easier for him to navigate in real life.
Step 4
Be sure to listen to children's grievances and complaints. Don't dismiss it. Perhaps the situation is much more serious than you might think at the outset. You are the main protection in a child's life. He must know for sure that he can count on you and that you will not dismiss the next childhood problems, but at least listen to him. If you do not know how to act in a situation that has arisen, so as not to harm the child and correctly assess the situation, consult with a psychologist. A psychologist, after talking with a child, can assess the problem in a completely different way. And he will give completely different advice than you expected.
Step 5
If your child is going to school for the first time, be more careful about the choice of the school and the first teacher. Chat with parents, with the teachers themselves.
Step 6
Try to be objective. Your child is also not an angel and, most likely, himself is the culprit of all conflicts. You should not rush into battle and stand up to protect the child at the first call. But if you see that this is not a simple conflict, but a manifestation of cruelty and even bullying by children or teachers, do not let the situation take its course. All children are different. Someone is assertive and knows how to stand up for themselves, while someone is afraid to say an extra word against. Despite the diversity of characters, any child has the right to protection and love from their own parents.
