Do you believe in female friendship? This question sometimes takes on a sarcastic connotation. And how many jokes have been composed about her. So really, does she really exist, and how can you check the loyalty of a friend?
Instructions
Step 1
Often you notice that the relationship with your friend was going well until you got married, or bought yourself a stylish fur coat, or met a cool guy. What's going on? Why does such a long and strong friendship fall apart under the influence of these life situations?
Step 2
To answer these questions, you need to know female psychology. Whatever golden character they have, it is so laid down that someone else's well-being does not give them rest. Only there are women who understand this destructive feeling and try to hide it deep in their souls, not to pull it out.
Step 3
They may not be jealous of their closest friend about her accomplishments or acquisitions. Or they reassure themselves with comparisons, they say that you have one thing, they have another. After all, different people have their own values. Someone is closer to material comfort, someone spiritual. If your girlfriend is from this category, then nothing breaks the relationship, your friendship continues.
Step 4
And if a girl gets furious with every new purchase, issues critical remarks about your next boyfriend, criticizes your progress in learning foreign languages, then here is the opposite case. This means that she cannot hide envy and irritation at your success. And here different options are possible.
Step 5
Or a friend will try to hide her envy, but you will notice how she changes in her face with every word you say about her accomplishments. Therefore, if you are still satisfied with such a friendship, you will have to share less your successes and pleasant moments with her in the future.
Step 6
There may be such friends, whose envy will result in disgusting deeds. They will try to embroil you with a new friend, saying various nasty things on him, they may tell unpleasant stories about you to mutual acquaintances. Therefore, consider whether it is worth continuing such a relationship further. Better to break all the threads of friendship with such an imaginary friend.
Step 7
Well, if your friend can support you at any time, after learning about your problems, she will immediately offer her help, sincerely express her opinion about one or another of your actions, you should know that her attitude towards you deserves respect. And take care of such a friend.
