Anything happens in life - and best friends quarrel! To prevent this from happening to you, you need to learn from the mistakes of others. Understand the reasons for the contentions of people you know - do not step on the same rake.
If your friendship is already several decades old and began in school or kindergarten, you think that nothing can destroy it. This is not entirely true - there are a number of reasons why your warm relationship may end. Friendship, like love, must be constantly fueled by mutual assistance, listening skills and dependability in response to a request for help from a friend. Even when you move away from each other, busy building your family relationships and careers, do not forget about old friends. Otherwise, gradual distance and alienation will lead to a loss of mutual understanding, and as a result, to a quarrel. Having met by chance on the street, you will not find common topics for conversation and disperse, wondering how you managed to be friends with this person before. Keep your friend informed of your life, consult with him in some matters, respectively, and your friend will not forget about you. Sometimes quarrels between friends begin with a trifle that seems insignificant and insignificant upon further analysis of what happened. You may disagree about the game of your favorite team during a friendly match, you may react differently to a harmless joke, you may believe the deceitful gossip of envious people - it would seem such nonsense, and friendships can be destroyed. And you just need to be more tolerant, respect the opinion of a friend, not trust recklessly unfamiliar people. Often friends quarrel because of heartfelt affections - they can fall in love with one person. This is a very difficult situation that must be dealt with very delicately and, of course, not without the help of common sweetheart. You cannot hide evil and resentment against a friend if the choice fell on him. Try to avoid losing a longtime friend to circumstances beyond your control. Take a vacation, change your surroundings, take a closer look at other people of the opposite sex - it is possible that you simply "got infected" by the feeling of a friend and it will soon pass. If you are friends and colleagues, quarrels between you are possible due to the fact that one of you will consider himself unfairly bypassed in the struggle for the next rung of the career ladder. In this case, it is necessary to put a clear line between work and friendship, not to confuse these concepts. Spend more time socializing on weekends. It is better to support a friend, helping him with a pure soul, than to waste energy on putting a spoke in his wheels. With a close-knit team, you will achieve much more than alone.
