There is an opinion that the first impression of a person is deceiving. Surely, when meeting new people, after a while you were disappointed in them, or, on the contrary, wondered how nice and friendly they were. In order to make a good impression on the interlocutor, you need to apply considerable skill and tact.
Instructions
Step 1
Most importantly, it is necessary to behave naturally, but not too relaxed, so as not to embarrass the person. But also do not be tense when talking. Try to communicate with people simply, without unnecessary "bombast". Don't be too serious, people will have a hard time finding a way to communicate with you.
Step 2
Do not wait for someone to pay attention to you first, you can become the initiator of a dialogue. When communicating with a person, show interest in his affairs, express your point of view, do not skimp on compliments.
Step 3
If you want to befriend a coworker who is negative about you, try highlighting their accomplishments at work. Or positively evaluate its appearance. But, trying to please, do not forget that you need to give compliments so that the person perceives them from the correct point of view. And he did not perceive it as mockery and ridicule.
Step 4
Listen carefully to the person during the conversation. Try to find something in common between yourself and your interlocutor, similar interests in something, the same attachments. All this should unite you, since people usually communicate easily with those people who are like them. It can be both external similarity and similarity in views on the world around us.
Step 5
If something goes wrong in your life or a problem has arisen, do not try to reflect negative emotions on the interlocutor, you can simply share the problem with him, and the person himself will sympathize with you in difficult times. Likewise, other people may have problems, which can be guessed at first glance at a person. You, in turn, do not try to ask obsessively, you should tactfully support and offer your help. Remember that everyone has strengths and weaknesses, to make a good impression, you need to use the former and not show the latter.
