The first impression of a person can dispose new acquaintances to him, or it can destroy relationships that have not yet begun, it can provide a lucrative job or, conversely, deprive him of useful connections. Despite the popular proverb "They meet by their clothes …", appearance is often not the main factor in personal contact. To make a good first impression, it is enough to follow simple rules of dating etiquette.
Instructions
Step 1
Punctuality is the hallmark of a collected and responsible person. Being late, even for the most valid reason, will create a negative impression of you even before you are greeted. For the beginning of dating, this is not suitable. Your punctuality will indicate that you know how to value not only your time, but also your partner's time.
However, you shouldn't come too early either. If the person waiting for you is not yet ready or is absent altogether, you will have to wait in vain for the appointed time. And coming to visit ahead of time is considered very impolite.
Step 2
Remembering the name from the moment we introduce you to a new acquaintance is a good way to win over the person. During the conversation, try to refer to him exclusively by name. Such an appeal is not only pleasant and polite, but also focuses the interlocutor's attention on you and your statements. If you cannot remember the name of a new acquaintance the next time you meet, the person may get the impression that meeting him was not interesting to you.
Step 3
Use body language, smile. These methods of non-verbal communication form in the subconscious a certain impression about a person: positive - if the interlocutor likes the behavior, negative - if repulsive. In no case, do not look away, do not evade eye contact, try not to get too close to the person, violating his intimate space, do not slap him on the shoulder. It is enough to remember two simple steps that can lead to a good, friendly relationship - a wide natural smile and a long handshake.
Step 4
Tidy, appropriate clothes, neat hairstyle, polished shoes, for women - appropriate makeup, well-groomed nails - all this, combined with the correct tactics of behavior, will make the most favorable impression on the interlocutor.
Step 5
When communicating with new people, watch your statements and speech in general. Do not swear, speak competently, clearly, so that the interlocutor does not ask you again, putting yourself and you in an awkward position, do not use black humor, do not be intrusive. Be especially discreet and polite when dealing with older people and business partners.
