Parents don't always like the ones their kids fall in love with. Unfortunately, in such cases, the pressure from the father and mother sometimes turns out to be too strong, and love ends in a bitter parting. However, if a mother dislikes her potential son-in-law, her daughter has a chance to prove that he did not deserve such treatment.
Instructions
Step 1
Ask your mom what exactly your boyfriend did not suit her. Don't let her interrupt the conversation too quickly, bring the conversation to the end. This is especially true in cases when the mother first says that she does not like the man, and when asked what it is, she replies that it does not matter and leaves. Listen carefully, calmly, do not scandal or interrupt. Try to understand your mom, because this will make it easier for you to change her mind.
Step 2
Tell your mother about the merits of your young man, about his successes, plans for the future. Often, parents, caring about the happiness of their daughter, first of all worry about whether the spouse will be able to protect her, become a support in life, support the family, etc. If your mother accuses your chosen one of weakness, stupidity, laziness, childishness, etc., tell her about his awards and achievements, without mentioning those moments when he really behaved inappropriately.
Step 3
If your mother does not like the appearance of your beloved, try to draw her attention to the positive traits of his character, his mind, hard work, love for you. Explain that if he does not wear a formal suit or tie, this does not characterize him as an antisocial person with low intelligence.
Step 4
Try to teach your lover how to communicate with your mom. Different families may have different traditions, and what is normal for a young person may seem terrible to your parents. If it is not customary in your family to visit empty-handed, have a man bring his potential mother-in-law a bouquet of her favorite flowers or a box of chocolates. Teach him how to behave properly with your mom so that she doesn't have any complaints.
Step 5
Never quarrel or even argue with your boyfriend in front of your parents. Moreover, you cannot tell anything about your conflicts. On the contrary, you should come across as an affectionate loving couple, who, however, does not go beyond the bounds of decency. The young man should be affectionate and helpful with you. If the mother sees how he cares for you, her attitude may change for the better.
