A banal and familiar situation to many, when a baby does not want to be left without a mother for a minute. Sometimes even taking a bath becomes problematic. As soon as the mother disappears from the field of view of the crumbs, tears begin, or even hysteria. Many mothers hope that after a year, the situation will change for the better. But not everything is so simple.
For both the mother and the one-year-old child, the past period is the most difficult. Throughout the year, the mother is always with the baby to create conditions for full growth and development. Of course, mom gets tired and hopes that the little one will eventually be able to play on their own. But the baby stubbornly does not want to let his mother go without leaving her a single step.
After a year, children begin to explore their surroundings. The little man alone cannot cope with this task. He desperately needs the help and support of his mother. Being around all the time, the baby feels confident and calm. After all, the first independent steps are difficult when everything is new and unfamiliar around. Do not rush your little one to become independent. Do not under any circumstances compare him with other children. All babies are different. After a while, you won't know how to stop your over-independence.
If the child stubbornly does not let his mother away from him, then it is necessary to reconcile and learn how to do all the homework, as well as relax with the baby. Try to get your child interested in something. Although it may not last long, you can still get some of the work done. Then you will have to come up with a new activity for the baby and again do some of your work.
This method, however, will not save you from periodic tears and tantrums. But this is natural. The child wants to communicate, but does not yet know how to speak. He tries to say something, and if it doesn't work out, he reacts in his own way. Therefore, all that he needs requires crying. The best way out in this situation is to divert the child's attention to something else.
Try to be patient and learn to see only the good. Do not rush the child, rejoice in his victories and the fact that the baby is next to you. There will come a time when you would be happy to see and talk to your children, but, alas, he will already be more mature.
