People often spend more time at work than at home. And constantly communicating with colleagues of the opposite sex, sometimes very courteous and attractive, entails first flirting, and then falling in love.
If you are married or already have a man you love, you should not seek adventure at work. Office romances rarely end well. Carried away by feelings, you can lose not only relationships, but also a prestigious job. Most companies discourage peer-to-peer bonding and, once they learn of your affection, they may simply fire you so that your emotions don't interfere with your work life. Always remember this if you have a desire to fall in love with a colleague.
It is better to find a worthy partner outside the office walls. Imagine that you fell in love with a colleague, and he reciprocated you. You will see each other around the clock, which will quickly get bored. Mutual claims and reproaches will begin. In addition, you will no longer be able to objectively evaluate his work. And you will find fault with trifles or, conversely, get away with mistakes. Neither one nor the other is conducive to office work. And, accordingly, it will not be approved by the management.
Before falling in love with a colleague, try to get to know him better. Watch how he behaves at a corporate party. In the service, people are not at all the same as at home or with friends. And, perhaps, the behavior of a colleague in an informal setting you will not like at all. Then the desire to create a couple with him will instantly disappear.
It is likely that a coworker is flirting with you for selfish interests. Especially if you are higher in rank. It is quite easy to figure out such a colleague. Hint that you are in management trouble and are more likely to quit. If the interest has not disappeared, the feelings are real. And if a colleague began to avoid you, then all the previous steps in your direction were props.