Finding a life partner at work is a modern and not the worst option, because for sure you and your chosen one will always have common topics for conversation. But before looking for ways to seduce a colleague, weigh the pros and cons. Make sure that whatever the outcome of a possible relationship will not affect your position in the organization and your reputation. If the advantages still clearly outweigh, then proceed to action.
Instructions
Step 1
The easiest way to build relationships is between people who have known each other recently. For example, if a new employee came to the organization who immediately attracted your attention with his appearance or manners, then you should not delay expressing sympathy in his direction. You need to have time to establish friendly communication before the relationship turns into "strictly business".
Step 2
If you came to a new place of work and literally immediately realized that you were in love with one of your colleagues, then it is better, on the contrary, to postpone confessions. You must first of all think about how to prove yourself from the best side. Flirting with employees, and even more so, an office romance will not only be regarded as a frivolous attitude to work, but will certainly affect your reputation.
Step 3
You should be careful about flirting with your boss. The idea of falling in love with the boss comes to mind not only for young girls, but also for quite mature, experienced women. In the fantasies of the fair sex, such a relationship seems to be an amazingly beautiful fairy tale with a surely happy ending. But in reality, unfortunately, it is very likely that even if you are really sympathetic to the boss, he still will not risk his position and reputation for the sake of an affair with a subordinate. In the worst case, such relationships in general can turn into short intimate meetings, information about which will greatly spoil the opinion of the team about you.
Step 4
When you are sure that there are no obstacles to the relationship, it is worth starting the "attack". Men no less than women love pleasant words addressed to them. Unobtrusive compliments to the skill, appearance, and personality of a colleague you like will quickly move the relationship from a business-like to a less formal one.
Step 5
Surprise your colleague in a new way. You may have been working together for a long time. And he saw you already tired, not sleeping enough, angry, irritated, immersed in work … But he hardly saw how incredibly beautiful and feminine you can be. Take the trouble to come to work with neat makeup and beautifully styled hair for at least a couple of weeks. Choose more revealing, figure-flattering outfits. But do not break, of course, the dress code of the company.
Step 6
Show your sympathy openly by expressing concern. For example, if you know that your coworker's life is a work-home-work cycle and he often stays up late in his place, make him dinner that only needs to be reheated in the microwave.
Step 7
Any secrets of female seduction are fully valid for colleagues. The only difference is that it is a little more difficult to find the right moment to apply them.
