Some women, out of fear of loneliness, continue to maintain relationships that are no longer good for them. This position deprives the girl of the right to personal happiness in the future.
Future plans
If you find it difficult to end a hopeless relationship, think about your future. As long as you stay with your partner, clinging to illusions, your life will be the same. To improve your personal life, build a new alliance with another man, you need to part with an unsuitable young man, understand yourself, draw conclusions for the future, experience unhappy love.
Perhaps you are hoping that something will improve in your relationship with your young man over time. If the fact is that you do not suit each other in character, outlook on life, seriously disagree in the vision of the future, most likely nothing can be corrected. In this case, your optimism is irrelevant, even destructive.
There is no doubt that you deserve the best. You have the right to a normal relationship and great, mutual love. If you have lost faith in yourself, your own attractiveness and femininity, perhaps your partner is to blame for this. Moreover, you should part with him before he completely ruined your life.
The pros of being alone
Don't be afraid to be alone for a while. There are many advantages to freedom. Such a respite after an unsuccessful romance is especially beneficial for the female psyche. Just do not immediately look for a new gentleman. Until you calm down and are ready for a fulfilling relationship, nothing good will come of your haste.
Give yourself time to rebuild and get over the breakup. Live a little for yourself. Now you do not need to look after anyone, cook dinner when you are not hungry. You do not need to take into account the opinion of your partner when making the next purchase or choosing a place and time of rest. Enjoy your personal freedom. You can go to any event you want, meet friends, disappear for whole evenings, leave for the whole weekend.
Accept this period as a gift. Then you will remember this time with warmth in your heart, if, of course, you use it wisely. Take care of yourself, improve your health, work on your appearance. Now you have the opportunity to pay more attention to personal care. Refresh your wardrobe, try a new hairstyle.
Meet new people, travel. Find some new hobby, creativity or a new kind of fitness for example. Learn something new. Of course, a girl in a relationship can do all this. But if you are a free woman, you have more time and energy for this.
