Sometimes a friendship between a man and a woman cannot grow into something more. It is believed that the first step towards rapprochement should be made by a representative of the stronger sex. If he is in no hurry, a woman can take the initiative into her own hands and do everything to ensure that a real love date still takes place.
Instructions
Step 1
Get to know him better. Perhaps you are separated by some awkwardness, for example, you only communicate at work, you do not know his friends. Talk to him. Ask sincerely what he does in his free time. Common interests will allow you to be liberated, relieve embarrassment.
Step 2
Flirt! Most likely it is not worth making eyes at a working meeting or at a lecture at the institute, but informal meetings - parties, banquets on the occasion of colleagues' birthdays - can be used to charm him completely. The main thing is not to be shy, trust your inner voice, then your coquetry will not look deliberate.
Step 3
Delicately and casually ask common acquaintances about him. Praise him, tell him that he is the guy of your dreams. Thus, firstly, you will learn a lot about him, and secondly, there is a chance that he will learn about your delights and you will not have to try more - in such cases, men often take the initiative into their own hands.
Step 4
Give him a little present. Let it be a postcard with a funny wish, a soft toy in the shape of a heart, any pleasant trifle with a hint of tender feelings. If you are embarrassed to hand over a gift yourself, you can send it by mail or discreetly put it on its table. Just don't forget to subscribe, at least with your initials.
Step 5
Tell him that there is a great movie at a nearby cinema, but bad luck - you have no one to watch it with. Refer to a non-existent friend who wanted to keep you company but got sick. What man's heart will not flinch before the touching loneliness of a young lady who has no one to while away the evening with?
Step 6
Don't be shy about your feelings. There is nothing wrong with wanting a real romantic date. If none of the hints worked, invite the man to a nearby café and admit that you are lacking in attention. And soon he will make an appointment with you, how could it be otherwise?
