Many girls, going on a first date with an unfamiliar guy, ask themselves deep down the question - how to understand his true intentions? There are several subtleties in the behavior of guys who say that they care about the girl.
Instructions
Step 1
First of all, you should soberly assess your state of mind and ability to analyze. When a girl is in love, she may not assess the situation as usual. She looks at the object of her interest through rose-colored glasses, and often it seems to her that he is sending her many signs of attention. In fact, our feelings are not always mutual, the realization of this can cause deep disappointment and resentment. Therefore, even if you are deeply in love, turn on your mind and calmly observe the guy you are interested in for a while. This will help you be more objective.
Step 2
If you have known him for a long time, but cannot understand whether he likes you, or if this is all your inventions, and frequent meetings are just coincidences, pay attention to the guy's behavior. A person in love is really looking for meetings and often throws glances towards the object of sympathy. Passing by a girl he likes, he involuntarily straightens his back and protrudes his chest. In a word, he wants to show himself from the best side. These are all signs that the person is partial to you. But in this case, you need to look at the behavior of the guy with other girls for comparison.
Step 3
Want to know the intentions of the guy you're going on a date with for the first time? If he is trying in every way to get closer to you, hug, hug you, touch, then this indicates that he is experiencing sexual attraction. If a guy is already hinting at intimacy on the first date, then his intentions about you are unlikely to be serious.
Step 4
If there have been several dates already, pay attention to how they go. A guy who only wants to have sex will not spend a lot on gifts or other entertainment for the girl. The one who really likes you will give gifts for no reason (even small ones) at every meeting. He will try his best to please you.
Step 5
Your dating conversations with your boyfriend can also help clarify whether he is serious about you or not. If a guy tells you mostly about himself, not interested in your life, this suggests that he flaunts in front of you - but he is not particularly interested in you. The same is true if a guy, when meeting, only talks about his studies or his favorite sport. If he talks about his friends and his family, this suggests that he "lets" you into his life. It is also a good sign that the guy asks you about family and girlfriends. If he talks about his ex-girlfriend very often (albeit not very well), think about it. Surely he has not yet completely forgotten her, and perhaps wants to return the relationship with her again.
Step 6
Another important point is to rely on your intuition. A girl on a subconscious level often feels how this or that young man treats her and what his intentions are. Listen to your heart and don't be led by your emotions.
