Sometimes it is necessary to figure out whether the relationship has outlived its usefulness or whether it is worth giving the young man another chance. If you are at a crossroads, analyze the situation and listen to yourself.
Instructions
Step 1
Understand that the guy is over if you stop having any warm feelings towards him. It happens that a girl continues to be close to a young man because of pity, out of habit, or because of the fear of being left alone. It is impossible to build a happy love union on these motives. Therefore, it is important to be honest with yourself and admit that you no longer feel love and interest in a man.
Step 2
Analyze the young person's behavior. If he has stopped expressing his feelings for you in any way, does not take the initiative in your relationship and does not seek to spend more time with you, he may have lost interest in you. In this case, do not impose. If a guy doesn't need you, he will leave sooner or later. Instead of a painful and long parting, it is better to immediately put everything in its place and call the young man for a frank conversation.
Step 3
Evaluate the prospects of your meetings. If at the present time you want to build your future together with your soul mate, and your young man has completely different life goals in his head, maybe you had better leave. Analyze how your worldview, attitude towards your family, plans for the future coincide. If they are radically different, find the strength to say goodbye to the young man and start looking for a more suitable candidate for cavalier.
Step 4
See if your relationship is developing. Maybe they are stuck at some stage, and you both have long been bored with this romance. In this case, it is worth admitting that you did not succeed in a successful union, and everything is over with the guy.
Step 5
Consider if your boyfriend has serious flaws that you cannot come to terms with. Do not close your eyes to significant flaws in the habits or character of the man who is next to you. Understand that over time, the contradictions between you will only grow. If no compromise is possible, it's best not to torture yourself or your boyfriend.
Step 6
Listen to yourself to see how comfortable you are in the relationship. Analyze whether you are feeling happy or whether the romance only brings you grief, anxiety and disharmony. If you feel bad with a young man, it is better to part with him. Think back to when you felt better: before or after the beginning of the affair. If you chose the first option, it is clearly not your man next to you.
Step 7
Rate how well you and your boyfriend are intimate. Maybe in bed there is something to strive for, what to correct. If the guy does not agree to any changes, because everything suits him, perhaps it is time to say goodbye to this egoist. Understand that intimate relationships play an important role in your personal life. Disharmony in this area cannot be replaced by either sincere conversations or joint hobbies.
