When asked why girls like older men, the answer is obvious. A woman wants to feel protected and loved, and a mature man can give her what she needs.
Relationship with a mature man
An older man is confident in himself, as a rule, he managed to acquire real estate, a car and a position in society and connections, he knows how to present himself beautifully. Psychologists believe that the lack of parental care in childhood or her own lack of independence push a woman to a relationship with a more mature man who will help solve problems, take all the worries on himself, be able to protect and, if necessary, regret it like a little one. In addition, experience comes with age. Including representatives of the stronger sex become calmer, more balanced, more judicious, they know how to look after beautifully, know how to interest their chosen one and how to show their feelings. Under the auspices of such a man, the girl feels calm and well.
As a rule, with age, the craving for hanging out with friends and noisy parties disappears, but visiting a museum or an expensive restaurant in the company of a young pretty companion can be great entertainment.
Such men are excellent conversationalists and experienced lovers. A wide outlook and a rich inner world attract young inexperienced girls. You can discuss literary works and classics of cinema for a long time, visit exhibitions and other cultural events. There may be no sexy marathons in bed until morning, but the quality of sex is likely to be great.
What girl doesn't like expensive gifts? A man who has achieved certain heights in his career will gladly pamper his lady. In addition, he may be able to provide a secure future for his children.
What should you be wary of when starting a relationship with an older man?
Most likely, you will not have to hope for equality in such relations, since he is older, and therefore more experienced, therefore, everything will be made by himself. Do not forget that patronage can turn into addiction. Jealousy of younger men is possible. It is possible that the man was already married, and he has children from previous marriages, which means that, as a father, he has already taken place and may not want to have more children. If the age difference is too significant, frequent misunderstandings and problems in sexual life may arise. It is unlikely that he will be carried away by modern literature and visit clubs. It will be difficult to find a common language with friends and parents.
In any case, every relationship has its pros and cons.
