Many parents do not even know how their child lives. They are so busy with their own affairs that there is practically no time left for him. But the main thing for us is not work and money. The child should always come first.
In such families, adults do not consider it necessary to take care of the internal state of children. As a rule, they are not interested in the child's relationship with peers, do not consider it necessary to inquire about his school affairs. Sooner or later, this leads to misunderstanding and conflict between parent and child. Better not to wait for such a moment. You need to be proactive, maintain constant contact with your child, be aware of all his affairs.
But this is not enough to protect a child from violence. It is necessary to constantly explain and talk about all the precautions. You need to speak calmly and clearly so that the child understands what you want to achieve from him. Never shout or intimidate him - this can lead to the fact that the child begins to avoid everyone. Sadly, but recently, cases of rape and corruption of children are not uncommon.
How can you help your child avoid this? After all, the threat comes not only from aggressive rapists, such as alcoholics, drug addicts, hooligans and so on. There are also hidden, veiled rapists. From the outside, they seem to be completely normal people. They have a slightly different purpose, it is to seduce. Such people are often lured with sweets, toys, ice cream, they can ask for a guide. Girls, especially from first to sixth grade, easily make contact with such people. This gives additional confidence to the rapist, he tries to win over the child. During sexual intercourse, he convinces the child that this is a harmless game.
Very often a veiled rapist is a person who is in constant daily contact with children. This can be a school teacher, tutor, circle leader, and so on. The most common victims are children who have been neglected in terms of sex education. Many of them have lost their sense of bashfulness, thanks to adults, while others are brought up in extreme severity on the part of adults, and during sexual harassment they simply do not dare to resist.
Therefore, parents should explain to the child what is the difference between respect for elders and unconditional obedience. The child must learn to say "no" if he sees that they want to hurt or harm him. It is very important that the child is always with friends during a walk, and not alone. Because some of them will be able to say "no", and perhaps even call their parents or other adults. This will surely scare the attacker and he will definitely back down.