The child's uncertainty is most often manifested in the fact that he is less sociable, often sits alone, is afraid to take an active part in children's games, and he has few friends. The task of the parents is to help him overcome shyness and insecurity. Otherwise, there is a risk that in the future such a child will have many problems already in adulthood.
Instructions
Step 1
An insecure child in the company of strangers can even panic. This is sometimes triggered by a lack of human relationship skills. In such cases, children hide their fear and discomfort behind overly active, cheeky and assertive behavior. Build self-confidence in your child from an early age. This will help in the fight against this phenomenon, and in the prevention of such problems. Create a welcoming atmosphere at home. Help your baby not to be afraid of the outside world by surrounding him with warmth and care.
Step 2
To build self-confidence and self-confidence, have your child tackle difficult but doable tasks. Help him go through all the tests and achieve a positive result. Do not scold him for his mistakes. Explain to him that all people "stumble" and it is very difficult to do everything right the first time. But in this way you can gain invaluable life experience.
Step 3
Never scold the child for the manifestation of personal qualities, and also do not discuss with him his misdeeds and oversights with those around him. Do not under any circumstances make fun of his weaknesses. Try to find strengths in your baby and develop them in the right direction.
Step 4
Protect your child from shyness by developing adequate self-esteem and a sense of self-worth. Children who have problems in this area are very often criticized and then long and painfully experience it in themselves. Remember that the child should be comfortable alone with his inner world.
Step 5
Develop an active life position in your baby. This will protect him from shyness, insecurity and timidity. After all, it is inaction that gives rise to shyness in children. Try to change your child's behavior, not his character and personality.
Step 6
Insulate him from various stresses and anxieties. Watch your baby's clothes and hairstyle so that they do not become a reason for ridicule among his peers. But at the same time, avoid social isolation. Give your child free access to information (within reasonable limits, of course). This will teach him to keep up any conversation.
