In adults, shy children cause affection, but parents should understand that shyness and shyness will prevent their baby from fully developing and communicating with others. And in the future, this can lead to difficulties in learning and to the fact that the child will not be able to defend his position. If you see that insecurity is becoming a problem for the child, be sure to help him overcome this feeling.
Instructions
Step 1
Do not emphasize the shyness of the baby in public, never call him a coward and do not compare with other, more sociable and relaxed children, thus further lowering his self-esteem.
Step 2
Listen carefully to the child, tell him as often as possible that you love and appreciate him. Praise your baby for every achievement he has made as a child, this will greatly increase his confidence in his abilities.
Step 3
Play "communication" with your child at home. Use toys to simulate a situation in which a shy bunny will learn to be friends with other animals. Let the kid control and speak for different characters. Such a game will help him to find a common language with others more easily.
Step 4
Do not limit your baby's freedom. Let him learn to make decisions on his own and implement even the most unusual and creative children's fantasies.
Step 5
Often go for a walk to playgrounds, where the child will be in the company of other children for some time. Don't expect your toddler to start actively playing with his peers right away. First, walk around, talk about what the rest of the kids are doing. Build something with him in the sandbox, and if any of the children wants to join you, be sure to take him into your company.
Step 6
Teach your child from a very young age to approach other people, introduce themselves, suggest a new game, and maintain a conversation. Encourage your child to try to make contact with other children, even if they are not very inclined to this, explain that you should not be afraid of being rejected, and you should try again to establish contact with other children.
Step 7
Attending kindergarten becomes a real test for insecure children. For the first week, leave your child in the garden for just a few hours, gradually increasing the duration of his stay in the team. This will make it easier for the baby to get used to the new environment and will give him the opportunity to gradually get to know and communicate with all the children in the group.
